Safe Sex: Guide to Condom Use

Many men like to think they know everything about sex, or at least act like they do. When it comes to putting on a condom, men probably aren’t eager to ask questions about proper application, even if they understand how important safe sex is for maintaining overall health generally and penis health in particular.

But men with questions regarding safe sex have nothing to be ashamed of. For starters, nobody is born knowing everything, and a lack of knowledge about certain aspects of sex doesn’t necessarily indicate a lack of experience.

In the U.S., the state of sex education is poor. In December of 2015, the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) released a report stating that less than one-fifth of middle schools and one half of high schools are teaching all the sex education topics that the organization deems important. The least likely topics to be taught involve condom use - specifically, how to obtain and correctly use condoms.

Where to Get Them
 
Of course, it’s always possible to walk into a store and pick up a pack of condoms. But for some men, the cost may be prohibitive. Check out local sexual health clinics and progressive organizations that may provide free access to condoms. Some schools and youth organizations make them available to young men and women.

For men who can purchase condoms but for social reasons don’t want to get them from the local store, consider buying them online. Options abound, and this method is more discreet.

How to Use Correctly
 
There’s a lot to keep in mind when applying a condom, but it gets simpler with practice. The following steps should be followed:

- Get the right size. Condoms that are too tight or too loose are prone to slipping or breaking. Look up size charts, and measure the circumference of the penis to see which is best for oneself.

- Check the expiration date.

- Check the package for any damage.

- Check the condom itself for any damage.

- When rolling the condom down the penis, leave room at the tip for semen and pinch the tip to prevent an air bubble from forming, which may burst the condom when a man ejaculates.

- Once the condom is on the penis, smooth out any air bubbles along the shaft.

- Don’t store condoms in wallets or other tight places.

- Have lubricant handy in case a partner is not adequately wet. Lack of lubrication is a major reason for condom breakage.

- Practice makes perfect. Try using a condom when one masturbates; this will give a man plenty of test-runs applying condoms.

No Shame in the Safe Sex Game
 
It’s a shame that men might feel enough shame around their own lack of sex education that they would forego learning the essentials. It’s never too late to educate oneself. Along with this guide, there are plenty of helpful, reputable resources online to help men get their bearings where the school system may have failed them.

Also, men should not hesitate to ask health professionals for assistance. If a man has a primary doctor but is not comfortable discussing safe sex with him or her, making an appointment at a designated sexual health clinic is advisable. There, the professionals are more than used to the questions a man may have, and highly capable of answering them.

Another area that may not have been covered in school is maintaining proper penis health in other ways beyond practicing safe sex. One way to do so is to invest in keeping the penile skin in good condition. Lubricant helps in this department, as it can cut down on chafing during sexual activities (partner-based or solo). Another great idea is to use a quality penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) with Shea butter and vitamin E. These two moisturizers keep the skin smooth, soft and supple, looking and feeling its best. Show the manhood a little extra love with a skin care product like Man1 Man Oil.

Safe Sex Made Sexy: Condom Foreplay

Condoms are an important part of safe sex, but some men have a difficult time staying hard while putting on a rubber. There are a number of reasons why this might occur - one being that the step can be an interruption of the arousing activities that came before. Maintaining arousal while applying a condom is important for men with issues staying erect during this step. Since safe sex is imperative for penis health, men should apprise themselves of different ways to ensure that condoms don’t disrupt the mood.

Visuals
 
Men are known for being highly visual when it comes to sexual stimulation. Having a partner perform activities that a man enjoys watching can help him maintain an erection while putting on a condom. The partner may masturbate for the man or fondle her breasts as he suits up, for example. If a man has a kink that the partner is into, such as a particular fondness for lingerie, indulging in this for him can also be helpful.

Hand it Over
 
For some men, having a partner apply the condom is the ticket for maintaining arousal. The partner might want to consider providing some oral stimulation just before applying the condom. He or she can stroke the base of the penis while placing the rubber on his head, then pinch the tip and roll it down. Smoothing out any air bubbles along the shaft can turn into a hand job, making it less a procedural action and more a part of foreplay.

From Behind
 
The partner who is experienced with putting a condom on his or her lover may wish to do so from behind. The man can kneel or stand, while the partner kneels or stands behind him, kissing his neck, stroking the base of the penis while placing the wrapper on the head and, as with the step above, pinching the tip, rolling it down and smoothing out air bubbles.

At the Entrance
 
If the partner is female, she can lie on her back, spread her legs and place the rubber in front of her vagina. The man can then kneel in front of her and put the condom on ever-so-close to her opening, then slide right in.

Don’t Skip Proper Steps
 
Partners can experiment with different ways of keeping the sexiness going during the condom application process, but it’s important that these experiments don’t involve skipping important steps that ensure proper condom use. These steps include:

- Checking the expiration date (best done ahead of time)
- Checking the package and the condom itself for damage
- Squeezing the tip while rolling it down
- Smoothing out air bubbles
- Making sure that the partner is adequately lubricated to prevent condom breakage (not to mention discomfort)

It’s easy to rush when things are getting hot and heavy, but these steps are imperative for correct condom use.

Making condom use part of foreplay requires that partners know what they are doing. It’s a good idea to practice. Get some condoms and practice applying them, either to a man’s penis or another phallic object, following all the proper steps so that one becomes completely comfortable from start to finish.

Some men may experience irritation at the penile tip from friction created by condom use. Fortunately, there are varieties of condoms with roomier tips that may be more comfortable. Applying a drop of lube in the tip can also increase comfort - and pleasure! Another step men can take to prevent friction-related chafing is to apply a penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) daily. With Shea butter and vitamin E, Man1 Man Oil moisturizes the penis to keep the skin smooth, supple and resilient. Skin care is important for men, too, and the penis is no exception. Taking care of the manhood will help maintain sensitivity and function in the long run.

Safe Sex: Getting the Right Condom Size

A Swedish youth health clinic, serving people up to the age of 23, made headlines in 2015 for handing out measuring tape designed to measure the penis. While at first this seems like an alarming perpetuation of men’s preoccupation with their penis size, the tape is not made to measure length of the manhood, but circumference. Why? So men get condom size right. Safe sex is crucial for penis health, but throwing on any random protection that’s lying around may not be sufficient to protect against the spread of infections or unwanted pregnancy. Learn more about why, and how to get properly sized condoms, below.

Size and Slippage
 
Condoms are about 98% effective at preventing pregnancy - when used correctly. Unfortunately condom use errors are common, including inadequate lubrication, failing to look for damage, improper storage and putting them on inside out. But one mistake men might not realize they’re making is wearing condoms that are either too big or too small. Condoms are more likely to slip off or break if they are not the right size for a man’s member, exposing both partners to possible infection, and the female to possible pregnancy.

The Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States reports that condoms slip down the penis exposing part of the shaft 13.1% of the time, and they fall off completely 5.4% of the time. The Indian Council of Medical Research conducted a study which suggested that as many as 1 in 5 condoms don’t work because they are not the correct size for the men wearing them.

Circumference
 
Men who are aware that condom size matters likely think that the appropriate size of the protectors is based on penis length, but this is a misconception. A man with a long, slender penis may need regular-sized or snug condoms, whereas a man with a shorter but thicker member may need the large variety.
 
The Right Fit
 
Men can use the following guidelines, provided by Condom-Sizes.org, to get an idea of the type of condom they should be using:

- Penis girth below 4.7 inches = snug fit
- Penis girth between 4.7 and 5.1 inches = regular
- Penis girth above 5.1 inches = large

Additional Safety Tips
 
There are many ways condoms can break. One of the most common is inadequate lubrication, which exposes the condom to enough friction sometimes to break it. Having a quality lubricant on hand in case natural wetness wears out is always a good idea. Note: Oil-based lubricants (such as Vaseline and baby oil) cannot be used in conjunction with latex condoms.

Check the condom for damage before use, including the rapper. A puncture in the packaging could indicate a hole in the condom.

Leave room at the reservoir tip so that the condom doesn’t break when a man ejaculates.
Smooth out air bubbles along the shaft before having sex.

Healthy Penis, Happy Penis
 
Keeping the penis healthy is vital to a man’s sex life along with his overall physical and emotional wellbeing. Practicing safe sex is not the only thing a man can do to keep his member in peak condition. Using a quality penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) can do wonders for the look and feel of the penis. Shea butter and vitamin E provide moisture to skin that may become dry and chafed from the frictions of sex, masturbation and clothing. Man1 Man Oil also contains vitamin A, which, as an antibacterial agent, helps fight penis odors. Healthy skin that is free of unnatural odors makes the manhood more appealing to partners and more pleasurable for the man himself, since skin condition is linked with a man’s ability to sense stimuli. Men can love what they’ve got a little better with proper skin care.

How to Practice Safe Sex: Learn the Facts

Safe sex starts with education, and, unfortunately, most people did not receive quality sex ed in school. This means that there are plenty of sexually active people who aren’t fully aware of their risks of contracting and spreading sexually transmitted infections. In the interests of penis health, sexual health and social responsibility, men should take some time to fill in the gaps of their knowledge.

Below are some common beliefs concerning sexually transmitted infections (STIs), followed by a discussion about whether each is true or false. Men can take the following like a quiz if they desire.

Beliefs
1) One can’t catch an infection from a virgin.
2) Infections can be spread by a toilet seat.
3) Not all condoms prevent STIs.
4) STIs are only spread by anal or vaginal intercourse.
5) Not all lubricants are safe to use with condoms.
6) If a partner has an STI, one can tell.
 
Answers
 
1) False! It may seem like a no-brainer - if a partner hasn’t had sex, how can he or she have a sexually transmitted infection? The key here, though, is to keep in mind that people define virginity differently. A partner may consider him/herself a virgin if he or she has had non-penetrative sex, but what about oral sex? And has there been any skin-to-skin contact in the genital region? Infections can be transmitted these ways.

2) False! At least, it’s extremely unlikely. Skin-to-skin contact and the exchange of fluids facilitate the spread of STIs, generally not a surface like a toilet seat. Unless there’s blood on the seat and/or one has an open cut on part of the body that touches the toilet seat, there’s usually nothing to worry about.

3) True! Lambskin condoms do NOT prevent the transmission of STIs. That’s because the material is porous enough to allow them through, although the condoms are effective at preventing pregnancy.

4) False! This was already partly covered in #1 above. Herpes and HPV viruses can be passed through skin-to-skin contact, and don’t require penetration. Gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes, HPV, HIV, hepatitis B and chlamydia can all be transmitted through oral sex.

5) True! Oil-based lubes, such as Vaseline or baby oil, can erode latex, so they should never be used in conjunction with latex condoms. Always read lubricant instructions and condom packages to be sure that one is not mixing things that shouldn’t go together.

6) False! Yes, sometimes STIs have clear and visible symptoms - bumps or lesions, for example. But often, they don’t. A person can have an STI and be asymptomatic, or may have symptoms that are not visible.
It’s a good idea for partners to talk openly and honestly about their sexual histories so they have a good idea of their risk of infection. Sexually active individuals should also be tested regularly - once a year, at least, and more frequently if an exposure took place, if one has multiple sexual partners and/or if one presents with unusual symptoms such as burning with urination, unusual discharge or visible bumps or lesions.

Along with using protection and receiving regular testing, men should take care of their penises with a comprehensive hygiene routine. Washing after sex or masturbation is always a good idea. Avoiding harsh or strongly-scented soaps is important for preventing irritation of the delicate skin.

Another step men can take to keep their manhood in peak shape is to use a penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil). Skin care is important for men, too, and the penis may need some special attention due to the frictions it is subjected to, from a man’s hand to partners’ bodies. With Shea butter and vitamin E, Man1 Man Oil is a powerful moisturizer that will heal sore, chafed skin and keep the skin more resilient to friction in the future. Along with protection and proper hygiene, using a quality skin care product like this on the manhood daily will give men a leg up in the look and feel departments.

Safe Sex: Condom Problems and How to Prevent Them

Condom use isn’t something most men get excited about, but it’s imperative to safe sex. That means it’s imperative for a long, healthy and active sex life - and that’s something nearly any man can get enthusiastic about. In the interest of maintaining optimal sexual and penile health, men should take the time to learn about common condom problems and how to prevent them in the future. While condoms are 98% effective at preventing pregnancy when used correctly, a 2012 review of 50 studies shows that a great many people make mistakes when using them. Avoid the following errors.

Not checking for damage
 
The review found that the vast majority - about 83% of women and 75% of men - reported not checking condoms for damage before using them. Condoms can acquire tears or holes, so they should always be examined pre-use. Yes, this means (in certain cases) turning on the lights and taking pause. It’s worth it.

Not removing air
 
Over 40% of the participants involved in the studies said that air was not squeezed from the tip of the condom before use. Failure to remove air from the tip increases the likelihood that the tip will pop.

Not leaving room at the tip
 
Semen needs somewhere to go inside the condom. Between 24% and 46% of respondents across the studies reported not leaving a reservoir at the tip of the condom. That makes the situation ripe for breakage.

Removing it improperly
 
When a man exits his partner after climaxing, he should hold the condom at the base of his penis to make sure it doesn’t slip off inside the partner. He should also exit quickly after ejaculating, since the condom is prone to leaking as he gets soft. About a third of respondents in the studies reported incorrect removal/withdrawal.

Wrong lube
 
Oil-based lubricants can degrade the integrity of latex, causing condoms made of the material to break. Only 3-5% of respondents reported this error, but it’s still very important to be aware of.

No lube
 
A condom is more likely to break if there is inadequate lubrication around it. Up to a quarter of respondents reported jacketing up without lubing up as well. It is true that some partners may produce plenty of natural lubrication, but it’s still a good idea to have a product made for the purpose (and made of the right base) handy in case she starts to dry up.

Rushing in
 
A 2015 study by Kinsey Institute researchers found that rushing while applying a condom doubled the odds of breakage or slippage and tripled the odds of leakage. It’s understandable why a revved-up couple would want to get to it as soon as possible, but partners should consider making condom application part of sensual play. She can stimulate him by using her hand to roll it down (squeezing the tip of the condom) and then smoothing out the air bubbles along the shaft. It’s safer to take one’s time, and it also helps take some of the pressure off. Rushing isn’t fun or sexy; it’s stressful.

Wearing protection is high up there on the list of things men can do to keep their penises healthy. Men should learn about the other things on that list as well. Regular use of the member promotes erectile function into old age (not to mention, it’s just enjoyable). Washing well with warm water and a mild cleanser (if any soap is used) is also best for it. Finally, men should consider investing in a quality penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) enriched with moisturizers like Shea butter and vitamin E to keep the manhood skin smooth and supple, protecting it from the various frictions of the day and night. Taking care of their skin will help ensure that they can enjoy pleasurable sensations for the long-haul, and it also makes the organ more appealing to potential partners.

Safe Sex - Having the Conversation with a New Partner

Few men get hot and bothered discussing matters of contraception and infection prevention, but men should try to keep in mind the fact that responsibility and a high level of comfort can be very sexy traits. No partner wants to deal with a man who grumbles, sighs and laments the use of condoms; one might as well tell his partner right off the bat that he’s not planning to enjoy himself. And nobody wants to have an awkward conversation about sexual history or protection preferences, but those conversations are important for vaginal and penile health, and they don’t need to be awkward. A man who brings knowledge and ease to such topics can start things off on the right foot.

The following are important things to discuss before having sex with a new partner:
Back-Up Method
If a man’s partner is female, he may want to know if she uses another form of birth control, such as the pill or the Nuva ring. Condoms can break or slip off; though it’s rare when they are put on correctly - something every man should be very skilled at - it’s still possible, and the couple may be more comfortable if the female partner has a back-up contraceptive method.

Infection History
Many people have had one or more sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in the past. Some people still have active infections, whereas others have been treated and cured. Be honest.
Testing History
Sexually active individuals should receive regular STI testing, at least once a year. This is true even if no symptoms are present, as some people don’t exhibit symptoms of infections but can still pass them on. Gonorrhea, chlamydia and HIV are commonly tested for. Syphilis and some forms of HPV can be tested for as well. But it’s important to understand that not all STIs can be tested for, so even if no symptoms are present and tests have come back negative, there’s always a chance of passing something along. That’s why condoms are never a bad idea - they don’t prevent the spread of all infections 100%, but they go a long way to inhibit transmission.

Previous Partners
Many people like to discuss how many previous partners each has had. Some prefer not-so-specific information, focusing on a general feel for how many, and a number for those with whom one has had unprotected sex in particular. Good questions to ask are: Have previous partners had STIs before, during or after their time together? How many partners since the last round of STI testing?

What If?
Whenever two people are having sex and wish to avoid getting pregnant, it’s a good idea to ensure that both are on the same page concerning what to do in the event of accidental pregnancy. One partner might be strictly opposed to the pregnancy being completed, while the other might want to keep the child or go the adoption route. A disagreement here could turn into a major life problem for both partners. This is something best discussed before it has a chance to occur.

Safe sex is one of the primary elements of penis care. Others include practicing proper hygiene and making sure to give one’s member plenty of exercise. In order to ensure everything is in good working order, guys should perform self-checks regularly. Anything out of the ordinary? How is the skin condition? If a man notices dry, chafed skin, he should attend to that. Cracks in the skin can provide a welcoming home for viruses, bacteria and fungi. Also, constant friction can cause the skin to toughen, reducing sensation over time. Men would be wise to use a penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) to moisturize the skin daily, protecting it from the various frictions it encounters from condoms, clothing, other bodies and a man’s own hand. Skin health, along with safe sex, is a vital component of overall penile health.

Safe Sex Advice – Lube Ingredients to Avoid

The two staples of safe sex are condoms and lubrication. Condoms form a physical barrier that interrupts the transfer of semen and many viruses, helping prevent pregnancy and various sexually transmitted infections. Lubricant helps reduce friction when using a condom, thereby reducing the chance that the barrier will break. However, safe sex entails more than picking up a couple products at the pharmacy or grocery store; to truly be safe, additional considerations should be kept in mind. Proper condom storage and application are essential, for example. It is also important to mind the ingredients used in the lubrication one buys; certain common ingredients can cause vaginal and penile irritation along with other problems. Proper penis care, then, requires familiarity with ingredients to avoid in lubricants.

1) Glycerin
This ingredient is commonly added to water-based lubricants. While it contributes to the slipperiness of the stuff, it also creates a ripe environment for yeast, as it is similar to sugar. Men and women can pass yeast infections back and forth, leading to burning and itchiness in the genitals.

2) Sorbitol
As with glycerin, sorbitol can promote yeast overgrowth.

3) Preservatives
Several preservatives may be found in lubes to prevent bacterial growth, including parabens, benzoic acid, sorbates and phenoxyethanol. These ingredients increase the risk of vaginal infections.
While the science is still out on a potential link between parabens and cancer, these preservatives are believed to mimic estrogen in the body; for women exposed to them, this could translate to an increased risk of certain cancers. There are a few different parabens commonly found in lubes: butylparaben, methylparaben and propylparaben. Better safe than sorry.

4) Oils
While oil-based lubricants (such as baby oil and coconut oil) generally contain no preservatives or odd ingredients, they can cling to the skin, clogging pores and increasing the risk of bacterial infections. Partners prone to yeast infections in particular should avoid them. Another highly important consideration is that they can wear down latex and diaphragms, increasing the risk of pregnancy and STIs when using those types of condoms.

5) Petroleum
Petroleum-based lubes can be irritating to the vagina, causing inflammation. They may also increase the risk of bacterial infections. As with oil-based lubes, petroleum products cannot be used with latex condoms or diaphragms.

6) Chlorhexidine
This antibacterial agent can interfere with the natural flora within the vagina, increasing the risk of infections.

7) Scents/flavors
The ingredients used in scented and flavored lubes can be highly irritating to vaginal and penile skin. Unscented, unflavored products are better choices.

8) Nonoxynol-9
This spermicide may be added to lubes to boost anti-pregnancy protection, but it has been shown to damage vaginal cells. It not only can lead to burning and irritation, but can increase the risk of contracting HIV, since damaged vaginal tissue provides an open door for the virus.

When using lubricant, check the ingredients and make sure it will not cause damage to oneself or one’s partner. It’s particularly important for individuals who are prone to yeast infections to avoid certain ingredients above. In general, a "plain Jane" lube is a couple’s safest bet for avoiding irritation and infections. Go for preservative-free, scentless products.

Sexy time isn’t the only time during which the penis may benefit from extra moisture. Using a penis health cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) every day can keep the tool hydrated, soft and supple. Look for Shea butter and vitamin E on the ingredient list. A man can get the best bang for his buck by choosing a cream that also contains L-arginine, a blood flow promoter, and acetyl L-carnitine, which supports nerve health so that a man can keep feeling sensations of pleasure.

Types of Condoms – Pros, Cons and Proper Use

Men have a lot to love about their penises; the organ provides them with immense pleasure, allows them to literally connect with others and offers pleasure to their partners. Men should show their penises love by taking good care of them - using, washing and admiring them regularly. One of the most important components of penis health is safe sex, which generally involves the use of a condom. A man who thinks he’s got the protection game all figured out may be surprised to learn how many types of condoms are out there. Couples have several options worth considering in this department, and the following guide is intended to give partners the information they need to make safe, fun choices.

Materials
 
- Latex: Everyone’s familiar with latex condoms; that’s because this is the most common material used in their manufacture. Why? Latex is cheap, strong and reliable. This type of condom is therefore easiest for most couples to access. However, some people find them to be too constricting, while others have an allergy to the material requiring them to avoid it.

- Polyurethane: Likely the second most common material used in condom production, polyurethane is a standard alternative condom type for people with latex allergies, or those who don’t find latex comfortable. This type of condom has some advantages over its latex cousin: first, polyurethane is a thinner material that transfers heat better, making for greater potential pleasure for both partners while having sex. Also, some men find them less tight and uncomfortable than latex condoms. It should be noted that this type of condom is more brittle than latex, and therefore more prone to breaking. Also, they’re expensive. Finally, as with latex, some people are allergic to polyurethane.

- Lambskin: In terms of feel, lambskin condoms - made from the intestines of lambs - are hard to beat. Their natural feel is attributed to their natural source. However, the pores in this material are large enough to permit the transfer of sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Lambskin condoms are, however, effective in preventing pregnancy.

- Polyisoprene: This newer material is produced by removing allergens from latex rubber. It’s ideal for people who are allergic to latex and/or polyurethane and still need STI protection (ruling out lambskin). The feel is similar to latex, and the material is similarly cheap. Though rare, some individuals may be allergic to this material.

Partners may choose to experiment with different types of condoms to see what works best for them. Make wise choices: If both partners are not monogamous and free of STIs, lambskin isn’t the best choice; if a back-up birth control method is not used and the couple wants to prevent pregnancy, polyurethane isn’t ideal.

Proper Use
Knowing what type of condom to get won’t do men much good if they don’t take care of the barriers and put them on properly. The following condom care and use steps should be followed to a tee:

1) Don’t keep them in a high-wear spot. Wallets and pockets are not good homes for condoms. Store them in a place where they won’t be subjected to friction or compression.

2) Check the expiration date. Every time a man uses a condom, he should check the date on the wrapper to be sure it hasn’t expired.

3) Open carefully . Tearing away viciously at the condom’s wrapper with fingernails, teeth or another sharp object can tear the condom itself. That’s not very helpful.

4) Pinch the tip. The tip of the condom is designed to collect sperm. If a man (or woman) doesn’t pinch it, air can become trapped in the tip as the condom is rolled down the penis, creating a ripe situation for condom rupture. Don’t create a bubble to burst!

5) Roll it down, smooth it out. There shouldn’t be air bubbles anywhere inside the condom. Smooth it out on the penis before insertion.

Condoms aren’t the only thing a man should cover his penis with. A quality penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) can help maintain sensitivity levels and soft, responsive skin. Look for alpha lipoic acid on the ingredient list, as this antioxidant can prevent oxidative damage to manhood cells and prevent wrinkled skin. Also seek out Shea butter and vitamin E - after a vigorous pumping session, these ingredients can help hydrate raw skin back to its former state.

Condom Types – Sizes, Shapes and Special Features

There’s nothing dull about safe sex, particularly when it comes to the vast selection of condom types offered by the protection market. This is good news, as safe sex is a vital component of penis health, as is a vibrant and flourishing sex life. Condoms come in different sizes and shapes, and some have special features. Some of a couple’s decision-making process about which protection to opt for will be based on safety considerations, and others on preference. This guide to the three S’s - sizes, shapes and special features - will help men get their bearings in the condom aisle, and both partners’ rocks off in the bedroom.

Sizes
Choosing the appropriate condom size for a man’s penis is important both for comfort and safety. Too much or too little room can lead to slippage and/or breaking. There are condom size charts men can use that require them to measure the circumference of their members and match this up with a condom size.

As a general rule of thumb, men with penises with a circumference under 4.7" may want to opt for smaller varieties. A girth between 4.7" and 5.1" will likely be best accommodated by regular condoms. A circumference beyond 5.1" usually merits larger condoms.

Shapes
The shape of a man’s condom is also worth considering, both for safety and for fun. The following are standard shapes:

- Straight: Straight condoms feature a uniform width up to the rounded end, which contains a reservoir tip for catching semen (this should be pinched when the condom is put on to avoid an air bubble that may burst during intercourse). These work for most people, but may not be comfortable or secure for men whose penis girth varies notably from shaft to head.

- Flared: This condom variety has more headroom, tapering narrower down to the base of the shaft. Some men find the extra room at the top more comfortable; these may also be best for men with large heads and shafts that narrow toward the base.

- Snug: The snug fit condom contours around the head of the member, then tapers to fit nice and snug underneath it along the shaft. Men on the smaller end of the spectrum may find these ideal.

Special Features
Condoms come with several features that couples can consider trying out. These include:

- Lubricant: One of the main causes of condom breakage is lack of adequate lubrication. While some couples enjoy putting lube on separately, others like to have it included on the condom itself.

- Spermicide: Spermicide is a chemical that kills sperm, and may boost a condom’s ability to prevent pregnancy. On the downside, it can irritate the penis and/or the vagina.

- Texture: Some condoms come equipped with special textures like ribs, twists or studs that manufacturers claim will boost her pleasure, though there’s no hard science supporting this claim. Couples should discuss whether these are something they’d like to experiment with.

- Warming/tingling additives: Some couples like to add some heat to the sex act, literally. While warming or tingling ingredients can certainly create a new experience, they also have the potential to irritate the sensitive sensual skin of both men and women.

Condoms aren’t the only valuable products a man can place on his pecker. Some men find a penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) to be a beneficial addition to their care regimens. A cream packed with essential nutrients like L-arginine and vitamin C can help promote healthy circulation, supporting performance ability. Also look for Shea butter and vitamin E on the ingredient list - these moisturizers will restore softness and hydration to penile skin that has seen its fair share of friction throughout a night of vigorous use.

Safe Sex: How to Mesh Protection with Pleasure

Why do people have sex? Most of the time, they get busy because it feels good. When two bodies are moving together, in perfect rhythm and harmony, the sensation can be remarkably pleasurable, and couples emerge from these sweaty sessions feeling unified, happy and content. But sex isn’t all about fun; it comes with risks. Each episode has the potential to cause long-term health issues. For example, people who don't use protection might spread or contract infections, and men may need extensive penis care measures to restore their health. (And don’t forget about the risk of unwanted pregnancy.) That's why safe sex with condoms is so important. These little sheaths slide right over the penis, providing a layer of protection between two bodies that are as close as possible.

Easy Solution
A basic condom is made of latex. It has a tiny receptacle at the tip for sperm, but otherwise, it's shaped like a penis. A guy can unfurl the thing while squeezing the tip and then go to town. (He should also check the date to make sure the condom has not expired, and take care not to damage it by opening the wrapper with his teeth or another sharp object.)

As a pregnancy preventer, condoms made of latex are pretty hard to beat. If they're put on properly, they block tiny swimmers from moving into a woman's body. But standard condoms do have some drawbacks. For one thing, they can be a touch thick. Some men feel like they're unable to really enjoy sex with slips on, and some people dislike the way condoms taste or the way that they smell.

Also, some people are allergic to the natural substance that's used to make latex condoms. These people might get a rash in the days following a sex session, or they might feel a burning sensation during sex. That kind of pain can simply kill a mood.

Wild Rubbers
If regular condoms don't work for a couple, there are plenty of other options. For example, some manufacturers have developed slips made of other materials, like polyurethane. These tend to be a little thinner, so a man might be able to experience more pleasure during sex.

The alterations don't stop there. In fact, there are condoms that:
- Taste like strawberries or mint
- Glow in the dark
- Warm up
- Deliver massaging sensations
- Look like tattoos

All of these products could help put the zing into sex. Even couples that have struggled with the idea of condoms in the past might be pleasantly surprised to discover the plethora of great products available, just waiting to be tested.

Post-Play Safety Steps
While experimenting with different types of condoms can be interesting and fun, men should take special care when playtime is through. That's because many of the ingredients that make condoms so interesting can be hard on the penis. Spermicides in the products can burn, dyes can irritate and flavors might cause rashes.

Keeping these problems at bay is a little easier when men remember to wash up after sex. While hopping up and running to the bathroom may not be romantic, washing quickly is one of the best ways to ensure that irritating agents don't stay in contact with the skin one second longer than they should. That could mean skipping a future sore penis episode, and that's always worthwhile.

When penile tissues are clean and dry, it's the perfect time to apply a dose of a penis health cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil). The emollients will soothe hard-working tissues, leaving them smooth, soft and ready for the next roll in the hay. And there's no telltale scent or leave-behind grease involved, either. Men will simply feel clean and ready for more when the time is right.

Anal Sex - Playing it Safe on the Flip Side

For many individuals, anal sex is a mysterious, unexplored frontier. It seems that within our Western culture - as well as many, many other areas of the world, anal sex is often considered taboo. To many, it may feel "forbidden" or "dirty" because of the nature of the act, and can be met with resistance by one or both partners. However, for individuals wanting to explore this final sexual frontier, they need not experience shame or guilt; but they certainly should follow a few pointers to maximize their chances at pleasure without running into painful consequences. Read on for more about anal sex and how to maintain a healthy penis when engaging in this sexual behavior.

Why is anal sex taboo?
Everybody has their own thoughts and preferences when it comes to sexual activity. However, anal sex seems to get a bad rap more than other positions and activities. This may be because many people feel that is an "exit only." Men and women alike may be nervous about uncleanliness, coming into contact with fecal matter and transmitting infection and disease. Additionally, anal sex often carries a particular stigma among males. Combine that with the high likelihood of a painful experience if not performed correctly, and many people choose to have very limited - if any - exploration with anal sex.

Is it dangerous?
The biggest risk that anal sex entails is tearing of the anal tissue. This risk is enhanced when the giver is overzealous with thrusting speed and depth of penetration - and it can occur whether a penis, finger or sex toy is inserted anally. Additionally, there is a risk of infection being passed between partners if cleanliness is not a priority, and especially if condoms are not used properly. Lastly, because of the higher chance of anal tearing, the chance of HIV transmission is higher if one partner is HIV positive.

Tips for Safe Anal Sex:
1. Go slow! The anus is not as receptive to visitors as, say, the vagina or the mouth, so it is imperative that anything that is inserted is done slowly, so as to not tear the tissue.

2. Use lots of lube: Both partners need to be adequately lubed, and additional lube should be applied as needed. The anus does not create lubrication like the vagina, so the more the better. Seriously, use a lot.

3. The receiver is in charge: A surefire way to stop the exploration is to cause pain to whichever partner is receiving anal pleasure. The receiver dictates speed, depth and quality of the experience to prevent sharp pains and tearing.

4. If it hurts, stop: Try to relax during anal sex and enjoy the sensations. It should not hurt at all. If it is painful, the thrusting is too deep, too fast, or not enough lube is being used. Anxiety and nerves can also stop muscles from relaxing and cause pain; and if a partner doesn’t really want it - it’s probably not going to happen very easily!

5. Always, Always, ALWAYS use a condom: There are likely to be traces of fecal matter in the anus - though it is not as dirty as most individuals would believe. A condom prevents bacteria from entering the penis and protects the receiver from any infections the giver is carrying. Because there is a chance of tearing, and thus anal bleeding, the risk of blood born infections is higher during anal sex - therefore the importance of a condom cannot be overemphasized.

6. Communication is key: Because of the risk of pain, partners need to be in communication with each other about their actions. Thus—talking needs to happen! Many couples find that anal sex increases intimacy simply because they need to verbalize their wants and needs to their partner!

7. Be hygienic: Nothing that has touched the anus should touch the vagina or mouth unless it has been thoroughly washed (I.e. sex toys, a finger, or a penis). If switching between anal and vaginal sex, a new condom needs to be used, hands washed and toys washed, as any E. coli that is present could cause a urinary tract infection, or worse. It is also a good idea to take a shower before anal sex - what a great way to add foreplay to the mix - and afterward, as well, to clean up the entire body. To further protect the penis, men should use a penis health creme after sex, and every day, to further enhance the health of their Johnson (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil); a high-quality formula not only rejuvenates the skin, but also contains vitamin A to help fight infection causing bacteria. Apply after every shower to keep the penis healthy and clean.

Safe Sex IQ - The Do’s and Don’ts of Condom Use and Care

When it comes to safe sex, most men believe they can just "roll it on and go," but the truth of the matter is, there is more to safe and appropriate condom use than just sliding one on. In fact, improper condom use can actually increase the risk of unwanted pregnancy and transmission of sexually transmitted diseases. Check out these simple and straightforward do’s and don’ts for using and storing condoms to ensure maximum effectiveness and protection. After all, a man can never be too careful about maintaining a healthy penis!

Condom Do’s & Don’ts
 
1. Do open the condom carefully using the easy-tear edges (the zig-zag side).
 Don’t use scissors or teeth to rip open the package, as this could tear the condom.

2. Do store condoms in a temperature-controlled, dry place.
 Don’t leave condoms in the glove box or bathroom where extreme temper
ature and humidity can damage the latex.

3. Don’t carry condoms around in a wallet as the pressure and folding on the condom can damage it.
Do check the expiration date before use and discard any that are expired.

4. Don’t ever reuse condoms - even if they appear as though no bodily fluid is in them. Once the sexual activity is over, discard the used condom in the trash can.
Do change condoms if switching between different types of sexual activity (i.e. from vaginal to anal sex) to prevent infection and the spread of E. coli.

5. Do use condoms during oral sex, as certain infections can be passed from the penis to the mouth and vice versa.
Don’t use condoms that do not fit properly. Condoms that are too loose or too tight can tear or slip off inside a partner. If the size is incorrect, purchase a different brand and size.

6. Don’t attempt to put a condom on a flaccid penis, as it is likely to fall off or fit improperly.
Do ensure there are no baggy or loose spots on the condom, smooth out any air bubbles to ensure a proper fit.

7. Don’t apply an oil- or petroleum-based lubricant to a latex condom, as it can compromise the material.
Do select a water or silicon-based lubricant, which is safe to use with latex condoms.

8. Do remove condom immediately after sex and discard.
Don’t allow the penis to become flaccid before withdrawal from one’s partner, as the condom may accidentally fall off inside.

9. Do use a condom during each and every sexual encounter.
Don’t skip the condom, ever, for any reason, except in a committed, monogamous relationship.

Other safe sex tips:

• Check which way the condom unrolls before attempting to place it on the penis. Attempting to unroll it incorrectly can cause a rip to form, in which case the condom needs to be discarded. If the condom is placed on the penis inside out at first, it should also be discarded as "pre-cum" may have gotten on that portion of the condom. Simply turning the condom around may increase the chance of pregnancy. 
• A small drop of lube placed inside the condom tip can make it easier to apply over an uncircumcised penis and reduce the chance of tearing. Only use a small amount, so that the reservoir still has room to catch semen, and only use the appropriate kind of lube based on the type of condom.
• When putting the condom on, pinch the tip of the condom shut to eliminate the air pocket before carefully rolling it down over the erect penis.
• If one or both partners has a latex allergy, try polyurethane condoms instead.
• One can often get condoms 100% free of charge at local health clinics, so the cost of obtaining condoms should never be a factor for not using them.
• To maintain proper hygiene and prevent bacterial infections, it is always a good idea to hop in the shower after sex. The combination of body fluids and lubricant can also cause itching, irritation and odor. After getting out of the shower, apply a penis health cream (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil) containing vitamin A to keep bacteria at bay and keep the penis fresh and clean.

Safe Sex and Condoms - What Every Man Needs to Know to Protect Himself

Condoms are perhaps the most popular form of protection from STDs and unplanned pregnancy. Even still, many men have questions about the necessity and proper usage of condoms. Learn more about condoms and why they are an integral part of a man’s penis health.

Is a condom needed in a monogamous relationship?
 
There are a few factors to consider when deciding on protection when one is in a monogamous relationship. First and foremost, have both partners been tested for all STDs, including HIV/AIDS? If both partners were tested before the sexual relationship began, or within the past 6 months, and the test results came back negative, a condom may not be necessary for protection against transmittable diseases. A second factor to consider is whether both partners are truly monogamous. If a man has been in a steady long-term relationship and there is no history or fear of infidelity, forgoing a condom may be within the realm of consideration.

Lastly, is a condom the only form of birth control being used, or is pregnancy a concern in the relationship? If both partners are okay with oral contraception, or if the couple is okay with the possibility of a pregnancy - feel free to ditch the condoms. Alternatively, if the man has had a vasectomy, the woman has had a tubal ligation or is menopausal, wherein pregnancy is no longer physically possible, there is no need for condoms to prevent pregnancy.

Ultimately, the decision to lose the condoms is a joint one that should be made by both partners involved. Taking into consideration the strength and trust of the relationship, as well as the sexual health and the reproductive status of both partners, is necessary before going au naturel.

Are condoms foolproof?
 
Unfortunately, they are not. Though condoms are the first line of defense against STDs and pregnancy, they still need to be used properly. Studies have found that condoms are about 99% effective against the transmission of STD’s when used correctly. Expired condoms should never be used, as the material may have started to deteriorate, so if the use-by date is passed, toss them. Condoms also need to be stored properly. They should never be allowed to get too hot or too cold as that may damage the integrity of the material, nor should the package be bent or crumpled. Avoid storing them in a steamy bathroom, a glove compartment or a wallet, as an improperly stored condom is more likely to fail.

Additionally, condoms should fit the penis properly. Too loose, and they risk slipping off and spilling ejaculate; too tight, and they may tear or rip. Condoms should be put on before any penetration or genital touching occurs, as disease transmission and pregnancy can occur from pre-ejaculate -that tiny bit of semen that appears on the penis during arousal. The only foolproof method of birth control or STD protection is complete abstinence.

Can two condoms provide double protection?
 
Absolutely not! While it is often the case that two is better than one, this is not one of those times. Two condoms - either doubling up on male condoms, or using a male and female condom at the same time - actually results in double trouble. The friction from the two rubbers is likely to cause tears, increasing the chance of an accident. If one wants to "double up" on protection, a better pairing would be a condom and oral contraceptive, or a condom with spermicide.

How do condoms keep the penis healthy?
 
Condoms provide a protective sheath that surrounds the penis in its entirety; this prevents the transmission of STD. This is especially important, as there are several diseases which can be transmitted even when no symptoms are evident, leading to a very unpleasant surprise down the road. In addition to always using a condom, men should use a high-quality penis vitamin creme to keep their manhood healthy and resilient (most professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil). A penis oil packed with vitamin A - which helps eliminate bacteria - can help to guard against pesky yeast infections, penis pimples and other unwanted penis lumps and bumps which are not the product of a sexual encounter. Applying penis oil daily as part of the grooming routine can help keep the skin smooth, while contributing to overall penis health and function.

Penis Sensation Issues – Why Safe Sex Can Be Pleasurable

Do Condoms Make Sex Less Enjoyable?

Many men protest the use of condoms during sex.  Women are often told by their partners that sex just doesn’t feel as good when they are using a condom, or that it is unfair to make them wrap it up.  This male attitude may cause women to feel pressured to not use a condom, which opens the relationship up to unwanted pregnancies and even Sexually Transmitted Infections (STI’s). However, the fact of the matter is, condoms are a vital component of a man’s penis health and are meant to protect the man just as much as the women. So in most cases, men and women should abide by the rule No Glove, No Love.

About Sensitivity

Yes, condoms can reduce sensitivity, which for most men may seem like a bummer.  However, looking at it from the other side -- condoms reduce sensitivity -- which can actually help a man engage in longer, more vigorous sex, so there is an upside to the situation.  Condoms may reduce the occurrence of premature ejaculation in some men. Additionally, there are condoms on the market boasting increased sensitivity while still maintaining durability, so men should experiment until they find a condom that has a more enjoyable feel for them and their partner.

About Protection

The bottom line is that men who are having sex – especially with multiple partners – need to wear a condom.  The Center for Disease Control and Prevention estimates around 50% of the U.S. population will contract an STI in their lifetime. The annual incident rate of infection continues to go up each year, meaning the risk of unprotected sex is simply too high. Not so fast, older gentleman; STI’s are a problem for men of all ages, not merely an issue for men in their late teens and 20’s. No man is immune from STI’s, regardless of his age. In fact, new infections commonly occur in men over 50.

Condoms are integral in protecting one against unwanted or unplanned pregnancies.  Don’t believe every old wives tale being floated around; some of the more creative birth control methods (read: the pull-out method), are not effective at preventing pregnancy. Even if one’s partner is on oral contraception, or the pill, there are plenty of babies being born each year to prove that there is only a 99% success rate, if even if used perfectly. 

Another way to frame condom use in a positive light is that both parties find it easier to relax and enjoy the experience.  Many individuals report worrying during sex about unwanted pregnancies and the risk of infection -- and those are not very sexy thoughts to be having.  A condom may make it easier to put those fears to rest and concentrate on the activity at hand.

Is it Ever Okay to go Au Natural?

Yes. There are times when condoms can go by the wayside, but only if certain conditions are met.  First, both partners have to be 100% monogamous – meaning neither is getting action on the side.  Both partners should have been tested recently for all STI’s, including HIV/AIDS, and have a clean bill of health.  Even if both partners are showing no signs of infection, get tested! One or both parties could be carrying an infection, but simply be asymptomatic; these individuals can still pass on infection without having symptoms present.

Keep the Penis Healthy

Condoms are just one way for men to keep the penis healthy.  Engaging in cardiovascular activity, eating right and not smoking all keep the body’s circulatory system healthy, and that is key to an active sex life.  Adding a penis vitamin lotion to the daily grooming routine (most professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil) can also keep the skin of the penis healthy. As an added bonus, a formula including Acetyl L Carnitine may also increase penis sensitivity, helping to counter problems associated with condom use.