Sex Toys for More Advanced Users

Some would say that to have a happy sex life, all a man needs is a penis and a willing partner with which to share it. (Some would also say, from another point of view, all a man needs is a penis and a hand with which to share it.) But many men prefer a little more variety in their sex lives; they have good penis health and want to take advantage of their favorite organ - and thus many men and/or couples enjoy exploring sex toys as an added "spice." Some are perfectly happy with sticking with basics like a plain penis ring - but some may want to explore some more "advanced" sex toys.

Let’s take a look at some sex toys for more advanced male users.

- The grenade masturbator. Okay, a guy doesn’t necessarily have to be so advanced in using sex toys to make use of the grenade - but it’s so odd that it’s definitely not on most men’s list of first-time toy purchasers. The grenade is basically what it sounds like - a masturbating device shaped like a grenade. As with most masturbators, it’s made of a pliable material and designed for the erect penis to be stuck inside it. Sex is simulated until the man "explodes" rather than the grenade, by ejaculating.

- Nipple expanders. Although many men aren’t aware of it, the nipples can be an erogenous zone for men as well as women. (Indeed, nipple play is common among gay men.) Nipple expanders are essentially suction cups attached to the nipples to help them grow, both wider and longer. This in theory makes them even more sensitive to touch and more capable of delivering pleasurable feelings to a guy. Those who wish to explore this option should take it slow and gradually build up use over time. They should also discontinue if there are signs of discomfort.

- Male chastity devices. Popular among those who are more into the bondage and discipline scene, male chastity cages come in a variety of materials - silicone, plastic, steel, etc. - but are intended to serve the same function: to keep the penis locked away. Many are intended to make erections painful. The jury is out over whether prolonged use can cause damage to the penis, with many enthusiasts swearing to their safeness. However, users should remove them if there is any sign of possible damage.

- Advanced anal plugs. More and more men are discovering that anal plugs and other devices intended to stimulate the prostate can add a new dimension to their sex lives. Finding the device that is right for an individual can be challenging; most beginners should stick with smaller sizes, at least initially. Really thick plugs or dildos can be challenging, and those considered anal stretchers are usually best only for much advanced users. Some men may also find that those anal plugs that are "spiked" are a bit challenging to those who are just starting out and may wish to stick more to the basic models. It’s also always a good reminder that use of anal toys requires plenty of lubrication.

Whether a user of sex toys is a beginner or very advanced, he needs to takes steps to ensure his general penis health, and one excellent way toward this goal is the daily use of a top-drawer penis health oil (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin). The most respected oils are likely to contain both L-arginine and L-carnitine. The former is an amino acid that helps the body produce nitric oxide, thereby more readily enabling penile blood vessels to expand as needed. L-carnitine is a neuroprotective ingredient that can help maintain needed penis sensation, even when the penis is subjected to somewhat rough use.

Inflatable Sex Toys: A Few Things to Know

In the event that any man questions whether many people actually use sex toys, a quick perusal of the wide variety available online – or at any of the many sex toys emporia around the country – should put that notion to rest. A 2015 study found that sex toys use would grow by 40% between 2015 and 2020, from $21 billion annually to $29 billion. As long as a man practices appropriate penis care, using sex toys shouldn’t be a real issue, fortunately. That leaves him free to explore and enjoy the wonderful world of sex toys – including those of the inflatable variety.

Probably the sex toys most likely to be available in some inflatable form are dolls, anal plugs, dildos, penis rings, and vaginal imitations.

- Dolls. When the subject of inflatable sex toys is brought up, life-size inflatable dolls are what tend to come to mind first. Although there are certainly some male sex dolls, those of the female variety tend to be more popular. Most of these sex toys have openings at the mouth, the anus, and the vagina to allow for a man’s preferred penile penetration.

Use of the dolls is largely self-explanatory, but there are a few things guys should know. For example, have lubricant on hand, as many dolls could be a little rough on penis skin. Be sure to clean the doll thoroughly after each use; most dolls come with instructions on the best way to clean them. And if using a doll belonging to someone else, always wear a condom – in case the owner is not diligent about thoroughly cleaning up after himself. Also, be aware that many inflatable dolls make the same kind of “squeaking” sound associated with inflatable pool toys – and such squeaking may make it more difficult to use a doll inconspicuously, for those concerned about such things.

- Anal plugs. Inflatable anal plugs have become increasingly popular in recent years. As with any anal plug, it is inserted into the anus, to provide stimulation. But once inside, a guy can then hand pump the plug to a larger size. This is especially beneficial for men whose anal openings are especially tight. The plug can then be deflated when it is time for removal. Many men report that inflatable anal plugs are especially efficient at creating orgasmic prostate stimulation.

- Dildos. Operating on the same principle as inflatable anal plugs, the dildo is inserted into the anus (or, for a woman, the vagina) and inflated to a larger size; however, one can also inflate the dildo prior to insertion, if that is desired instead.

- Penis rings. As with anal plugs, inflatable penis rings are put in place (around the base of the penis) before inflation. The inflation provides a tighter fit, which can lead to a firmer erection. However, some medical professionals caution against making too tight a fit or wearing for too long, so care should be exercised when using.

- Vaginal imitations. Similarly, an erect penis can be inserted into a vaginal imitation and then the sex toy can be inflated, creating a much tighter fit. Again, however, men should be cautious about creating too tight a fit.

- Although many men find this embarrassing, it can be a wise move to discuss use of inflatable sex toys with one’s doctor in advance of their use.

Sometimes use – or overuse – of inflatable sex toys can lead to a sore (if happy) penis, so regular application of a top-drawer penis health oil (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) is urged. Greater soothing relief is provided if the oil contains a combination of hydrating agents, such as shea butter and vitamin E. In addition, overuse may result in loss of sensation, so an oil with neuroprotective L-carnitine is suggested to help maintain penis sensitivity.

Penis Rash Can Come from Sex Toys

From penis rings to dildos, sex toys are more and more commonly found in bedrooms of consenting adults. And while sex toys are more historically associated with females, the fact is that more and more males are growing comfortable with incorporating toy play into their sex lives – often with great results. In general, sex toys don’t come with penis health concerns, but there are some instances where a penis health issue may inadvertently arise. For example, sometimes using sex toys might result in a penis rash showing up unexpectedly.

Sex toys

People have been using sex toys for generations. Ancient Greece and Egypt, for example, include references to objects which would be recognized today as dildos. People have used phallic-shaped food, such as zucchinis, as “natural” dildos, and carved-out melons have been used by enterprising men as vagina substitutes for eons.

But today, sex toys generally refer to objects manufactured specifically for use in sexual situations, whether solo or partner-based, generally to enhance pleasure. (For some, that pleasure is enhanced through infliction of some degrees of pain, but the ultimate goal is pleasurable, however an individual may define it.)

Penis rash

In general, a penis rash (like most skin rashes) occurs because the penis skin has come into contact with some sort of allergic factor. Theoretically, the make-up of any individual could be such that he or she could be allergic to just about anything. However, the objects we will be discussing are those which are somewhat more likely than others to bring about a penis rash reaction. It’s important to note, of course, that just because some people may be allergic to something doesn’t mean everyone is.

With that in mind, here are some sex toys which in some instances could produce a penis rash in some men:

- Metal penis rings or balls stretchers. Penis rings are intended to tightly encircle the penis (or penis and balls) in such a way that blood is encouraged to fill the penis, thereby enhancing a man’s erection. Balls stretchers are worn tightly around the top of the balls so that the balls stretch out; sometimes weights are used to increase the stretching. Rings and stretchers can be made of several different materials, including metal – and in some instances, that can be problematic. A surprising number of people are allergic to nickel, and it can cause a rash in areas in which it comes into contact. Many metal products include nickel in their mixture – so a penis rash occurring after wearing a metal ring or stretchers may be due to the presence of nickel.

- Vagina substitutes. Vagina substitutes come in all different forms, but they are generally a hollowed out tube of some sort which has been lined with a soft material. An erect penis thrusts in and out of the tube, usually resulting in ejaculation. If the toy is thoroughly cleaned after each use, there is little risk of a rash – but if not, a penis rash is quite likely. The risk increases if a man does not clean it thoroughly after another man has used it. (Sharing sex toys is risky, and most should be sterilized before being shared.)

- Condom. Not a sex toy, but some men do have an allergy to latex – meaning that they must use non-latex condoms in order to be safe from both STIs and from a potential penis rash!

A penis rash from sex toys may respond to use of a superior penis health creme (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin). Rashes often need extra moisturization, so using a crème with both a high end emollient (such as shea butter) and a natural hydrator (such as vitamin E) is best. In addition, the selected crème should include alpha lipoic acid. A potent antioxidant, alpha lipoic acid protects the skin from the ravages caused by excess free radicals.

Using Sex Toys with a Bent Penis

More and more men (and couples) are incorporating sex toys into their sex play, and with good reason: sex toys can be fun and can add a new layer into someone’s sex life, especially if it has become a trifle routine. Some men, of course, are resistant to using sex toys, for a variety of reasons – worries that using sex toys makes them less of a “real man,” for example (which is far from the truth) or that there could be penis health issues from their use (generally not a problem if used properly). And many men with a bent penis assume that their excess curvature makes using sex toys unfeasible – but that is simply not the case.

What kind of bent penis?

It pays to define terms, especially one like “bent penis.” The fact is that, while many men have a perfectly straight penis when erect, many others sport an erection that offers some curvature. For some, there’s a graceful swoop up or a slight leaning to the left or right, or a small inclination downward. This can make the manhood even more aesthetically pleasing to some women, and as long as the curvature is not extreme or causes pain, then such a condition is not a problem.

However, sometimes a man has a penis so bent that it does create issues. If the curvature is such that it impedes penetration or causes pain during sex – or even when simply in an erect state – then a man is usually diagnosed as having Peyronie’s disease.

In Peyronie’s disease, the bent penis is typically the result of a build-up of scar tissue in the penis, often over a long period of time. This usually is the result of trauma to the penis. It can be a large trauma, such as being hit in the penis by a line-drive baseball. But it also can be the result of many episodes of small trauma, such as the penis being handling extremely roughly during partner sex and/or masturbation.

Sex toys

Because an extremely bent penis may make penetration difficult or impossible, many men assume that sex toys are off limits. In fact, many sex toys are still very much an option for a man with a bent penis.

For example, penis rings can still be used, especially if he has found that maintaining erections is challenging. These rings constrict blood flow out of an erect penis, often enabling a man to stay firm for a longer period of time.

In addition, penis extenders or sleeves may be a benefit to him and his partner. These are typically hollowed out silicone items in a phallic shape which fit over the penis. Some men find that these straighten out their bend somewhat (while they wear them at least) so that they can more successfully engage in penetration.

In addition, Peyronie’s sometimes causes a loss of sensation in the penis, making ejaculation and orgasm more challenging. Using sex toys such as anal plugs, prostate massagers or dildos in the anus can stimulate the prostate, which often helps bring about ejaculation and orgasm in many men.

As always, men should be certain to follow the directions when utilizing sex toys and to consult with a doctor if there is any reason why sex toys might pose an issue for an individual man.

Whether they have a bent penis or not, men will enjoy sex toys even more if they keep the penis in good shape, which can be aided by regular use of an excellent penis health creme (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin). Be sure that the selected crème is going to deliver a sufficient range of vitamins – especially vitamins A, B5, C, D and E. And the chosen crème should also include L-carnitine, an amino acid with neuroprotective properties which helps maintain proper penis sensitivity.

Sex Toys for Mature Men

Sex toys can be an important addition to the sex life of any person or couple – and that includes more mature men as much as it does those just starting out on their sexual life journey. Since maintaining an active sex life is a key component of good pen is health, mature men who may have found a “slackening” of frequency or intensity of sexual encounters (whether alone or with a partner) should definitely give a thought to incorporating sex toys into their intimate play.

Many mature men who might have an interest in this area might also wonder if there are some sex toys that are more appropriate for the more mature man. In general, sex toys don’t discriminate based on age – but here are some tips for the mature guy to keep in mind as he explores this intriguing realm. (Mature men, especially those with diabetes or blood disorders, should check with their doctor first, in case there are any suggestions on proper use.)

Rings are a favorite. Men of all ages tend to enjoy penis rings. Many men (and their partners) like the way that they look on their penis – and since they come in a favorite of colors and materials, a guy can be creative and find one that most suits him. Beginners often find that leather strap rings are more their speed; they have more flexibility and can often be easier to get on and off than steel or plastic models. Many penis rings also offer a vibrating option, which can be very pleasurable. And, of course, rings trap blood in the penis, which often helps a man achieve or maintain an erection. Note: As with most sex toys, penis rings are not meant to be used for an over-extended period of time. Always read directions with sex toys to determine proper use.

Sleeves are great, too. Sleeves or extenders are hollow tubes, often with a distinct penis shape, that fit over the penis. These can be especially enjoyable if a man has erectile difficulties, as they can enable him to engage in penetrative fun. Some also have vibratory features which can further provide stimulation to the penis and to the partner.

The prostate is a friend. Although barriers against male anal play have been coming down, many men still find it difficult to let themselves go and explore this avenue. But for those that take the plunge, the results are often unforgettable. There are a wide range of prostate massagers on the market nowadays. Although some of there are a basic cylinder shape, others are curved and twist in ways which can greatly enhance the prostate massaging experience. In addition, as with other sex toys, many come with a vibratory option which can greatly add to one’s pleasure. Many mature men find that using a vibrating prostate massager can help to ease erectile difficulties and may make penetrative engagements more likely.

Mature men and couples who use sex toys often find that it can open up new vistas for them sexually speaking. Men should be prepared to take advantage of this by keeping their penis in excellent health – and regular application of a top notch penis health creme (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) can help attain that goal. Men need to take care in choosing cremes so that they select one that provides proper potential health benefits. For example, a crème with vitamin A can help to attack persistent penis odors, thanks to the anti-bacterial properties associated with that powerful vitamin. The best crème should also include vitamin C, which is a key component of collagen, a tissue in the body that gives skin its tone and elasticity.

Sex Toys: Who Uses Them, and How to Care for Them Properly

Sex toys are becoming more a part of people’s sex lives, both in terms of their masturbatory play and their partner-based activities. That’s good, as many people find that the use of sex toys opens up new sexual horizons. And when used properly, sex toys don’t present a significant penis health issue. But sometimes a man can misuse a sex toy, and that can create a problem - and one of the most common ways in which a sex toy may be misused concerns improper cleaning of the item.

Statistics

As with many things sexual, hard statistics are difficult to come by when it comes to sex toys and their usage. However, there are some surveys and studies which, despite limitations, give a fairly good idea about sex toy use.

For example, in 2016, a study reported that 24% of all men (both heterosexual and homosexual) had at least once inserted an object into their rectum while masturbating. More than 32% reported using a vibrator at some time while masturbating. From this data, it was believed that at least 14-18% of straight men had engaged in anal play while masturbating.

Another study looked specifically at vibrator use among gay and bisexual men. This Journal of Sexual Medicine paper collected data from more than 25,000 men who identified as homo- or bisexual. Almost half reported having used a vibrator before, with most of them using it during masturbation and very frequently inserting it into the anus.

But a survey by sex toy manufacturer Adam and Eve found a very disturbing figure. When asking (both men and women) about how often they cleaned their sex toys, only 63% reported doing so after every use. Nine percent reported cleaning them after a few uses, but a whopping 28% said they never cleaned them at all!

Importance of cleanliness

The survey doesn’t break down the cleaning statistics by sex, but given the fact that men are often a bit more lax in their cleanliness habits than women, it’s tempting to assume that men are more likely than women to be careless about cleaning their cock rings, penis sleeves, vibrators, dildos and plastic vaginas. And that’s definitely not a good thing.

Depending on the object and how it has been used, the toy in question may contain dried semen, fecal matter, urine, blood, sweat, bacteria, pubic hairs, yeast, fungi, or elements which could potentially cause an allergic reaction. And in some cases, using a sex toy can spread sexually-transmitted infections. So keeping sex toys clean is crucial to a person’s health.

This is true whether the toy is used for personal masturbatory purposes or for partner-based pleasure. (And a rule of thumb: it’s better to have separate toys for each partner rather than sharing one toy. If toys are shared, a condom or other protective device should be used to prevent transmission of infections.)

Clean regularly

To be safe, sex toys should be cleaned after each use. Consult with the instructions that come with each toy, but in general, using mild soap and water or a sex toy antibacterial cleaner is best. Some toys - such as those with a porous material (such as a penis sleeve or a plastic vagina) or those which are inserted anally - may need more though washing. It’s also important to be sure that the toys are dry before they are put away.

Cleaning sex toys thoroughly is excellent for penis health; that health can also be better maintained by using a superior penis health creme (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) regularly. Search for a crème that includes both L-arginine and L-carnitine. The former amino acid helps produce nitric oxide, which in turns helps penile blood vessels expand when an increased blood flow is required. The latter is good at helping to protect delicate penis sensitivity from diminishing when the penis is used over-aggressively.

Penis Health and Sex Toys: Some Tips

The world hasn’t changed so much that a person can walk into the corner drug store and stock up on sex toys, but society is becoming more accepting of sex toys and the fact that using them doesn’t make someone a pervert. And even though sex toys use is still a bit more common among women, men do seem to be catching up in this area. And so, as more men begin utilizing toys in their sex play, both solo and partner-based, they may need to think about some possible penis health issues that might arise.

A material issue

One of the primary penis health concerns that needs to be considered is whether the materials used in sex toys are safe. This is not as easy a question to answer as it might seem, for the simple reason that sex toys are not regulated. They are considered novelties and so are not subject to oversight that not only would require that they meet specific regulations but which would also require packaging information that gave consumers valuable information about their contents. As a result, it’s a situation of "buyer beware."

In general, sex toys made of silicone or metal. Those that are made of latex or jelly rubber are more likely to contain potentially toxic chemicals. This can cause penis rashes or irritation, among other penis health issues. But just because something is made of silicone does not automatically make it safe. Those that are made of medical grade silicone are more expensive but are made of a silicone that has been tested for harmful effects. Food grade silicone has been shown to be safe in baking products, and may be perfectly safe in sex toys - but the research has not been done to verify that.

Sleeves

Men who want to purchase a penis sleeve or a similar device designed to wrap around the penis should take a minute to consider clean-up. It’s important to clean sex toys after each use. Can the sleeve be easily cleaned? If it can be turned inside out, that makes for easier cleaning. And if it vibrates, how does the electrical component affect its ability to be cleaned with soap and water?

Also - let the toy air dry completely after washing. Putting a damp object away, especially in a dark place like a drawer, can make it a breeding ground for mold. And that can definitely create an unwanted penis health issue.

Choose the right lube

Most sex toys need lubrication, but some lubricants will cause a toy to decay. This will happen if a silicone-based lube is used on a silicone sex toy, or if oil- or lotion-based lubes are used on latex toys. And if the material degrades, it can cause unwanted chemicals to leech out and onto the skin. If the packaging of a sex toy doesn’t indicate the proper lube to use, do a little research online to find the best options.

Go easy

Finally, sex toys can add excitement to one’s sex life - but a guy should go easy until he’s accustomed to it. It may feel like heaven, but overuse might make one’s penis sore as hell.

Guys should have fun exploring sex toys with themselves or with a partner, and they’ll have more fun if their penis health is already top notch. Daily use of a first class penis health creme (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) is one excellent way to keep an eye on that health. Since overuse or rough handling may come about if a guy gets a little too "into" things, he needs a crème with a combination of moisturizing ingredients (such as shea butter and vitamin E) to help soothe the overworked penis. And if that overuse has resulted in some loss of penis sensation, the creme should include neuroprotective L-carnitine, which helps restore diminished penis sensitivity.

Sex Toys for Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, and hopefully any men reading this who are part of a couple have already made plans and invested in some appropriate gifts. But even if the romantic dinner and other plans are all set, maybe there’s an area that hasn’t been investigated yet - such as sex toys? Valentine’s Day can be a perfect time to explore some sex toys with a mate -and they can also help to improve a guy’s sexual and penis health by providing new exercise for his "love muscle."

Many couples are already into sex toys and may feel they have all they need in that area. But for those who still have room in their sex toys chest, or for those just starting out exploring this exciting area of sex, following are some toys they may wish to explore.

- Penis ring. Start with the basics. For many men, a penis ring is the go-to "first sex toy" option. It’s simplicity itself: a ring which fits snugly around the penis (or the base of the penis and underneath the balls, depending on the style purchased). Penis rings impede the flow of blood from the penis so a guy can stay harder longer. They are made from many different materials, including rubber, metal and leather. Some rings come with "bumps" on them, which many women find pleasurable during sex. Some rings also vibrate, which can be pleasurable for both the man and the woman. In addition, some rings are made with a vibrating "extension" that can more directly stimulate the woman.

- Finger vibrator. Manual stimulation, either before or after penetration, is key to the sex lives of many couples. Men may want to explore the use of a finger vibrator, which many women find helps create a more intense orgasm than stimulation by finger or hand alone.

- Penis copier. If a man’s partner truly adores his penis, perhaps she would like a copy of it for when he is unavailable? There are a number of DIY kits on the market that enable a man to make a mold of his own erect penis and use liquid plastic to create a very personalized replica.

- Remote controlled vibrators and plugs. Many vibrators and vibrating anal plugs now come with remote controls so a partner can determine the amount of stimulation to be delivered. While this is an especially attractive option for couples who are into submission and domination, many couples who are perfectly happy with "plain vanilla" sex also get a kick out of these toys - especially if each member of the couple is controlling the other’s vibratory rate.

- Double dildo. Many men have found pleasure through anal stimulation in recent years, especially when their partner has demanded a "turnabout" for being on the receiving end of anal play. A double dildo is designed for penetration of two people at one time, so a man can be anally stimulated at the same time his female partner is vaginally pleasured.

- Massage oils. Finally, sometimes a couple just wants a low tech accessory - such as simple massage oils. Gentle touches from a partner’s hand are made extra special with oils that add an extra layer of soothing.

Sex toys aren’t all a man may want to have handy on Valentine’s Day. A healthy, exuberant penis is also nice, so he needs to be using a first class penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) regularly. When making a selection, find a crème that contains both L-arginine and L-carnitine. The former is an amino acid that helps boost nitric oxide production, thereby better enabling penile blood vessels to expand as needed. L-carnitine is another amino acid, one which helps to protect against loss of sensation in a penis which is handled too roughly.

Healthy Penis Tip: Proper Care of Sex Toys

With the increase in both the availability and the use of sex toys in recent years, more and more men are incorporating sex toys into both their solo and partner-based sex lives. The use of toys opens up new options and possibilities, so it’s easy to see why they have become popular. Some men, even those with a very healthy penis, may still wonder if they need to do anything to ensure that use of these toys doesn’t compromise their penis health or the health of their partners. With proper and careful use, there shouldn’t be issues. That proper use, by the way, includes caring for and cleaning sex toys in an appropriate manner.

With that in mind, the following tips are suggested for proper sex toys care:

1) Read up on them. Sex toys should come with basic instructions regarding their use and care. It’s helpful to become familiar with these instructions and follow them. Pay attention to any warnings and if the manufacturer advises a person not to use a toy in a certain way - then don’t use it in that certain way! It’s common sense, but sometimes people can get carried away. However, also be aware that sex toys are considered "novelties" and therefore are not regulated strictly - so some manufacturers may not include instructions. If that is the case, boning up on care for a particular toy using reliable online resources is recommended.

2) Wash before first use. Before plunging in with that penis ring, dildo or other implement, take a few minutes to give it a good washing. It should have been sanitized and factory sealed, but it’s always good to make sure. Besides, many objects have a "new product" odor that some people dislike, and cleaning can help decrease that odor. (Repeated use will eventually get rid of it.) And be sure to thoroughly dry the product after washing.

3) And wash after every use. Sex toys need to be cleaned after every use. While some men prefer to wait and just clean them right before they use them again, it’s probably safer to clean them soon after their use. This keeps bacteria and odors from getting more "ingrained" and harder to get out.

4) Know how to clean the product. Most sex toys respond well to soap and warm water, but check the instructions to see if a specific product is different. Toys made of metal may also be boiled, but a person needs to make sure to allow plenty of "cool down" time before using boiled objects. Any object involving batteries or an electric plug should come with information on the best way to clean without damaging. If it doesn’t, check a reliable source online - but submerging it in water is generally never a good idea.

5) Beware of porous materials. Many "soft" sex toys are made of a porous substance that can feel good - but which can also make it much easier to harbor bacteria, a no-no for men wanting to maintain a healthy penis. Cleaning porous material is also harder, and drying it can be difficult - which can then make it easier for bacteria to grow. So use porous toys with a proper degree of caution.

6) Store it away. After cleaning, put the toy somewhere dry and not too hot. Placing it inside a cloth drawstring bag is generally a good option; this keeps dust, bacteria and other no-no’s away from it.

These tips can help maintain a healthy penis while using sex toys. It also is beneficial to regularly use a first class penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) to keep the penis strong and healthy. Look for a crème with vitamin A, also known as retinol, which has anti-bacterial properties that can help reduce unwanted penis odor. It also is helpful if the crème contains vitamin B5, an important nutrient required for cell metabolism and the maintenance of healthy tissue.

Sex Toys Guide: Sex with a Penis Ring

They used to be something that no man (and few women) admitted to using, but nowadays more and more guys are using and discussing sex toys. And while there are quite a few male sex toys to choose from, lots of guys tend to start with a tried-and-true basic: the penis ring. Since men should always have proper penis care in mind when experimenting, now is a good time to provide some helpful tips for penis ring use. Though essentially safe, as with anything new involving sex, it’s good to have a little background information handy.

Historical

Penis rings have been around in one form or another for thousands of years. Ancestral versions of the device have been found in ancient Greek ruins, and their use has been well documented as far back as the Jin Dynasty.

The idea behind the penis ring is simplicity itself: Place a tight (but not TOO tight) ring around an erect (or partially erect) penis, so that it helps to constrict the flow of blood out of the penis. Damming the blood up in the erect penis helps maintain the erection and can also in some instances makes the erect penis feel "super-hard."

There are a few options on where to place the ring. The most typical is placing it directly at the base of the shaft. However, it is also popular to insert both the penis and the balls into the ring. Another alternative is to slip the ring on just underneath the glans.

Tips

- Penis rings can be made in a wide range of material. Stretchy rings made out of rubber or silicon are very popular, but some men prefer them made of metal or leather instead. Since there’s no "give" with metal, it may be better to start with plastic/silicon or leather, especially when finding one that "fits" right.

- Some men find that using a penis ring is easier if they manscape. Otherwise, pubic hair may sometimes get caught in the ring, causing some discomfort.

- Don’t be afraid to use lubricant when putting on the penis ring. Even though the chosen ring may be made of a stretchy material, it still may require some extra "slickness" to get it into place easily.

- Penis rings can be great fun and for some men can be a significant sex aid. However, as with most sex toys, there is some potential risk. Wearing a penis ring for too long - and thereby forcing the penis to remain rigid - can bring about tissue damage. Most sex toy producers recommend using a penis ring only for about 20 minutes at a time. But if the penis feels numb or becomes discolored, the ring should be removed even if it has only been on for a short time.

- Some penis rings come with a vibrating function. These often also have "nubs" or "bumps" on them. The vibration can be pleasurable for both the man wearing the ring and for his partner. The nubs can provide extra stimulation during penetration. In addition, there are some vibrating rings in which the vibration rate can be altered, and some in which a remote control can allow a partner to provide vibratory control of the ring.

- Like all sex toys, penis rings should be cleaned and dried after each use.

Using sex toys such as a penis ring can enhance a man’s fun, as can keeping his penis healthy. That health can be more easily maintained by the regular use of an excellent penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) . The best crème will include a range of vitamins, such as A, B5, C, D and E, the topical application of which allows them to more directly target the penis. The crème should also include alpha lipoic acid, a potent antioxidant that helps keep the penis skin strong and healthy.

Sex Toys for a Bent Penis

Can a man with Peyronie’s disease utilize sex toys in his private life? Many men with a severely bent penis have wondered about this, and it’s a very legitimate question. While not strictly penis health issue, it does speak to the ability of a man to enjoy sex, so exploring this question is quite valid.

Peyronie’s

Many men have a curve in their penis. Instead of being perfectly straight, it bends a little to the left or right, or perhaps up or down. Indeed, many men are especially proud of having a bent penis, feeling that the slight curvature gives their organ distinction. And many women find a little curvature aesthetically appealing. More than one female has found that a penis that curves at just the right angle is actually more prone to reach her sensitive spots during sex.

But when a man has a curve that is too pronounced, it can be another story. Most men with excessive curvature are said to have Peyronie’s disease. This occurs when the connective tissue in the penis is kept from doing its job. For example, if there is trauma to the penis - such as rough handling during sex (partner-based or solo) or if the penis experiences a sharp blow, especially when erect - it may cause some of the tissue to rupture or tear. When the body goes about healing this tear, it does so by creating a thin layer of scar tissue. If tears and trauma keep recurring, more and more scar tissue is built up - and this can cause the problem.

The scar tissue lacks the flexibility of the connective tissue it is replacing. As more scar tissue builds up, the penis has less flexibility when it goes from a flaccid state to an erect one. If, for instance, there is a large degree of scar tissue on the top of the penis, then when the penis becomes erect, there is less room for it grow on top. The underside of the penis continues to grow at the rate to which it is accustomed, but the top "runs out" of connective tissue, causing the penis to curve upward.

Many men with Peyronie’s find it does not affect them in the least. Some, however, find that the degree of curvature makes penetration difficult, or the inflexibility of the scar tissue causes pain when the penis becomes erect.

Sex toys to help?

For men for whom sexual activity is impeded due to their Peyronie’s, the use of sex toys might be valuable. The sex toy most frequently suggested for men with Peyronie’s is a penis sleeve. This is a hollowed-out, penis-shaped toy, usually made of silicon, plastic or rubber, meant to fit over a man’s own penis. Some men with a bent penis have found this can straighten the bend in their penis while they are wearing it (although the curve returns when the sleeve is removed). Many of the sleeves come equipped with features, such as rings or bumps, which can provide extra stimulation to both the penis and the vagina.

Sometimes the degree of curvature of a man’s penis is not the problem; rather, the scar tissue build-up deadens the sensation in the penis, making the ability to maintain an erection difficult. Wearing a penis ring (or a vibrating penis ring) helps some men with this issue.

Of course, many men with a bent penis require no sex toys to achieve a happy sex life. But like all men, they do need to keep their penis health at a high level, and application of a top rate penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) can help with that. It’s best to select a crème with both L-arginine and L-carnitine. The former is an amino acid that helps keep penis blood vessels receptive to increased blood flow. The latter, meanwhile, is neuroprotective and can aid a man in maintaining a proper degree of penis sensitivity and sensation.

Remote-Controlled Sex Toys for Long Distance Love

Ah, brave new world that provides such interesting options in the area of sex toys! With more and more people - individuals and couples both - incorporating sex toys into their sex lives, it’s not surprising that companies are busy trying to come up with new products. Since regular use of the penis contributes to its overall penis health, many men are getting an added benefit from this splurge of interest. And with new options for remote controlled toys, couples who want to use these items for long distance love sessions may discover a whole new world opening up.

Long distance sex
 
Couples’ interest in long distance sex goes back many years. Steamy love letters served as a way of keeping a relationship hot back in the days before telephone and Skype. With greater openness among couples about the desire for self-pleasure, more and more partners now find themselves engaging in long distance trysts from separate cities - if not continents.

Until recently, however, a person using, say, a vibrator while engaging in a steamy telephone conversation with their lover was controlling all the vibratory action themselves. Now, with wifi and Bluetooth and so many other advances, couples can find a way of lending a helping hand from far away.

So how does it work?
 
A guy can’t simply pull out an old vibrator and tell his partner on the phone to start it up for him. Only sex toys that have been designed for long distance remote control capability will work.
In general, most of these long distance sex toys are created for use with a smartphone - and usually by downloading a particular app designed for that object. So there has to be a little planning involved.

Once the app is installed, a person can then experiment with it to see just what functions it has. For example, how does it control the rate of a vibrator? Are there just several levels (say, 1-5)? Or does it have a sliding scale without numbers, where a person can provide greater "shadings" of vibratory activity? In some cases, the control may take up the entire screen, with different hand motions and speed of touch having an effect on the "output" end of the machine.

In some cases, a toy may be controlled by something other than a person. For example, some toys vibrate to the beat of a song (or songs, as the case may be).

The objects can also be synchronized. For example, a man may wear a vibrating penis ring while his partner utilizes a vibrating anal plug - but both are set to be controlled by the same user. Thus, one of the pair determines the rate of vibration so both partners are experiencing the same sensations at the same time.

And for the statistically-minded, some remote controlled sex toys also include ways of tracking usage. If one particular session brought about an especially strong climax, the user may be able to look up what settings were used and try to duplicate that experience.

The advantage of the remote-controlled sex toys for couples, of course, is that they can use their own control of the toys to interact more physically when they can’t physically be together. One partner can instruct the other to go faster or slower, just as they do when together in bed.

Sex toys that promote long distance experiences for a couple are exciting, but a man needs to make sure his penis is healthy enough to reap their benefit. Regular use of a superior penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) helps maintain that health. A crème with moisturizing ingredients like vitamin E (a natural hydrator) and Shea butter (a high end emollient) can help to soothe a penis sore from all that activity. And one with vitamin C can help aid in collagen production, necessary for proper penile firmness and health.

Sex Toys from Santa: Special Gifts for Her

Ho, ho, ho! With Christmas fast approaching, it’s past time that a man makes sure that Santa is bringing delightful gifts for the special lady (or ladies) in his life. Of course, sometimes Santa is too shy to give a woman certain gifts, so it behooves a man to step up and take charge of any sex toys that might please his special woman - and that can consequently enhance his own penis health by giving his favorite body part pleasure as well. There are all sorts of "naughty" gifts that can be stuffed in a stocking, but for those who need a little guidance, the following should be of help.

Let it vibrate
 
If a woman has any interest in sex toys at all, it’s hard to go wrong with a vibrator. For the newbie who has never experienced the pleasures of vibratory titillation, it’s probably wise to start small - something like a daintily-sized wand might be good, or perhaps a vibrating egg. Those more experienced in this area may welcome something with a bit more heft and size to it.

Even though Santa may have given the vibrator to her, don’t forget that sharing is a big part of the Christmas spirit. An interested man should invite his partner to apply the vibrator to his penis and other sensitive spots so they both can reap the benefits of this toy.

Let it penetrate
 
Vibratory stimulation is delightful, but many women may prefer something non-electronic for penetrative purposes. As with vibrators, dildos come in all sizes (and in some variations on the basic phallus shape) - not to mention an array of colors. Determine what specific style is right for the lady love and give it a try.

Of course, there are other penetrative options as well. For example, ben wa balls, which are a string of balls (sometimes in different sizes) are among the most popular of sex toys.

Many men are hesitant to encourage a woman to use a penetrative device, especially one which is of a size or shape that seems to outshine their own very fine penis. However, most women prefer these devices as an "additional" toy rather than as a replacement for the real thing.

Let it glide
 
Many couples use lubricants, either with sex toys or with their own personal playthings, so why not consider adding a little fun here? Some lubricants come with a flavor or a scent, and assuming neither partner reacts allergically to it, this addition can make sex a little more playful and fun.

Let it roll
 
Dice as sex toys? Sure. Some manufacturers create dice which replace the numbers with sex positions on one (missionary, doggy, etc.) and locations (bedroom, kitchen, etc.) on the other. Of course, a couple can create their own, simply by listing what each number means - and they can personalize it as much as they want. (One=kiss me on my right thigh, Two=rub my sexual organ with lubricant, etc.)

Let it loose
 
Some sex toys are good for letting inner desires out - handcuffs, whips, leather restraints, etc. A word of advice, however: be sure to discuss this beforehand in order to avoid an awkward reaction on Christmas morning.

Santa can bring delightfully naughty sex toys, but a man needs to make sure his own personal sex toy is in good health before presenting it to his partner. Regular application of a top flight penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) can help significantly. Make sure it looks properly handsome - with no cracks or flakes or dry skin - by using a crème with potent moisturizing agents like vitamin E and Shea butter. If the crème also contains vitamin B5, so much the better; this vitamin is essential for cell metabolism and the proper maintenance of healthy penile tissue.

Homemade Male Sex Toys Can Enhance Penis Health

When you’re a man, there are times when your mind is so focused on sex that everything brings erotic play to mind. When in such a state of mind, it may seem that even the most mundane items in the home are potential sex toys. Surprisingly, that perception is not so far from wrong. As long as he keeps good penis care in mind, an imaginative man may find his home really is filled with sex toys that can add to his sexual enjoyment.

How can this be? Let’s just take a look at a few items likely to be in a guy’s home and see if they can become sex toys for him to use.

- A donut. This one takes very little imagination. It’s soft and squishy, so it’s not going to cause damage, and the opening in the middle can of course fulfill much the same function as a woman’s vagina or a man’s own fist. Sure, the sugar and glazing may make the penis a bit sticky, but it might well be worth that small inconvenience. Who ever thought a tasty treat could be great for penis health?

- String or ribbon. One of the most popular male sex toys is the cock ring, a ring made of leather, metal, cloth or plastic that encircles the base of the penis (or in some cases, the base of the penis and the balls). The tightness of the ring often helps sustain an erection or increase the stiffness of same. But a man can get the same effect by using a piece of string or ribbon. As with a real cock ring, it’s important not to make it too tight or to wear it for an extended period of time; otherwise, serious penis health issues could ensue.

- A melon. A watermelon, cantaloupe or other large-sized melon can make for a thrilling if messily juicy sex toy. All that is needed is to carve a hole in the gourd large enough to accommodate a man’s erect penis, after which the melon is all set to be entered. And here’s a tip: melons can be excellent for a man to use when he wants to try out a new position. The downside, of course, is that the juice makes this very messy - but it’s also an unforgettable experience.

- Sponge bottle joy. Cut the top of a plastic soda bottle. Wrap some duct tape around the top edges, so any jagged edges are smoothed over. Place two sponges in the bottle. Stick the penis between the two sponges and move the bottle back and forth over the erect penis shaft.

- A feather duster. Buy a new feather duster. (One which has been used will have too much dirt and dust to make it hygienic.) Simply use this to stimulate the erect penis, running it up and down the shaft and paying special attention to the glans. The feathery touch will provide an especially erotic feel that most men find irresistible.

There are dozens of other household objects that can be made into or used as sex toys, from rubber dishwashing gloves to paper towel tubes to an electric toothbrush. When a man is aroused enough, almost anything can become an aid.

Whether a man creates sex toys in his home, purchases them ready-made or dispenses with them altogether, he still needs to regularly apply a first class penis health crème( health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) to his favorite organ to keep it healthy. Since many men get carried away with their sex toys and treat their members roughly, it’s wise to select a crème with soothing moisturizing agents like Shea butter and vitamin E. Rough (if fun) handling can also diminish penis sensitivity, so a crème with neuroprotective acetyl L carnitine is advised. The ingredient helps protect against peripheral nerve damage from aggressive or overenthusiastic stroking.

Unusual Sex Toys You May Want to Avoid

When it comes to sex, one man’s "normal" is another man’s "are you crazy?" and that applies equally to sex toys. Practitioners of what might be termed "vanilla" sex (for its safeness and conformity to sexual norms) may sometimes make profitable use of sex toys, but they are unlikely to want to try something too unusual. Exploring options like sex toys can improve sexual and penis health, but for those who want to keep that exploration within "normal" bounds, the following sex toys should probably be avoided. (Then again, many men who consider themselves "typical" in their sexual outlook have discovered an unexpected fondness for kink or the "unusual," so some may not want to be so quick to close the door on these.)

The dildo for the heel

This unusual little item is exactly what it sounds like: a dildo that is placed on the heel of the foot. Attached to a rubber strap that fits around the ankle, the dildo is then available for insertion into waiting orifices. This would seem to be ideal for people with foot fetishes, but it does require considerable skill and limberness in order to maneuver the dildo into a partner’s orifice - or, even more so, into one’s own.

Spiky anal plug

Many men enjoy being on the receiving end of anal sex activity, especially since the prostate massage created by this activity can be quite stimulating. However, fewer men are excited at the prospect of utilizing an anal plug covered in spikes. While the spikes are plastic and therefore do not have the potential for serious damage that metal spikes would have, the potential for discomfort (and damage) is still quite high.

Spiky penis ring

Guys who decide against the spiky anal plug might be even less receptive to its brother, the spiky penis ring. Yes, some penis rings are made with spikes that line the inside of the ring, so the spikes do indeed press up against the erect penis and/or balls (depending upon the style chosen). And some of these rings are made of metal with accompanying metal spikes, rather than plastic. Those who find pleasure from pain will want to add these to their sexual arsenal, but many other men will avoid it like the plague.

Sounding device
Some men find urethral sounding - sticking an object into the urethra of the penis when it is erect - to be stimulating. This is a dangerous (and potentially very painful) practice, so most men will want to keep their safe distance from any sounding devices.

Nipple twister

Men are discovering their body has more erogenous zones than just the penis, and nipples are high on the list of areas worth exploring. Many sex toys are designed to stimulate the nipples, but nipple twisters take that to a bit of an extreme. Again, those who find that pain enhances their erotic experiences will find this a worthy addition to their sex play, but others may want to give it a pass.

Sex toys, whether unusual or not, are increasingly common as part of man’s sex life, whether partner-based or self-induced. Their use can sometimes lead to soreness, which means it’s more important than ever that a man regularly apply a top drawer penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin). The penis that has been handled over-enthusiastically needs a crème with soothing moisturizers like Shea butter and vitamin E to alleviate that raw skin. Overuse may also result in a loss of penis sensitivity, so a crème that includes neuroprotective acetyl L carnitine to help restore diminished sensation is also crucial.

Male Sex Toys Are Fun But Require Appropriate Caution

Sex is certainly one of the most enjoyable activities available to humankind, and it’s no surprise that many people add to that enjoyment through the use of sex toys. Both men and women can use sex toys to add a new level to either their partner sex or their masturbatory experiences. But whatever the use, men need to take appropriate caution when using sex toys in order to make sure there is no damage to their penis health.

Male sex toys

While there is a wide range of sex toys for men, the majority of them fall into a few basic categories: cock rings, vibrators, anal devices/prostate massagers and imitation vaginas. Any one of these can increase one’s sexual sensations when used safely.

However, there are potential drawbacks that men should be aware of so they can exercise appropriate caution when utilizing one of these devices.

Cock rings

One of the most popular sex toys for men, cock rings are typically a metal or plastic ring or leather strap that fits very snugly around the base of the penis (or around the base of the penis and balls). They are intentionally tight, as the tightness "incarcerates" the penis, with the goal of trapping blood and creating or maintaining a very firm and stiff erection. While some men use these as treatment for erectile dysfunction, many simply use them for the pleasurable sensations associated with them.

Many men use DIY cock rings, simply wrapping a string around the penis and tying it tightly.

When using a cock ring, men should be sure it does not fit TOO tightly. If it causes pain or discomfort, it shouldn’t be worn. It’s also essential that a ring be worn for only a limited amount of time; most manufacturers suggest 30 minutes. Use of a ring for too long a period of time can lead to penile strangulation, a medical issue which can be quite serious and require a doctor’s attention.

Vibrators

Many cock rings have vibrating functions built into them, but many men also make use of a phallic- or other-shaped handheld vibrator to provide extra stimulation to the penis. While this is most frequently used during masturbation, it can also be employed by a partner during couples sex to great effect.

When using a vibrator on the penis, it is important that a man doesn’t use it for too long a period of time (or at too intense a setting) on any one section of the penis. The pulses of a vibrator tend to be gentle when compared to the roughness of some masturbation sessions, but if used too aggressively it can lead to a raw or sore penis.

Anal devices

More and more men are feeling free to explore their anus and prostate and how these positively affect their sexual experiences. This is a positive development; however, caution is needed to ensure that a man doesn’t get too rough during his explorations. Soreness in this area can negatively impede penile action.

Imitation vaginas

One of the most popular masturbation toys, most of these devices are safe if used according to instructions. The most common issues to watch out for are using without sufficient lubrication and simply overuse.

Used with a modicum of caution, male sex toys enrich a guy’s sex life. Since most of the side effects from improper use involve rawness and soreness, regularly applying a top notch penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically tested and proven mild and safe for skin) is an important step. Penis skin that has been handled too roughly responds well to a crème that contains both a high end emollient (shea butter is an excellent one) and a natural hydrator (such as vitamin E). That rough handling may also damage sensitive penile nerve endings, leading to a loss of sensation; a crème which includes neuroprotective acetyl L carnitine should help to restore loss of sensitivity due to rough handling.

Sex Toys: Proper Care Means a Happy Penis

As a quick Google search will verify, there is a wide range of sex toys available today, many of which are specifically designed to ensure a very happy penis. For optimum penis care (and for the proper care of a partner’s private parts, as well), there are a few precautions one should take with sex toys - but fortunately, these do not really pose challenges and are easy to accomplish. These tips on the care of sex toys can help to make the experience safer and more enjoyable for all parties.

All sex toys need care
First, it’s important to realize that all "durable" sex toys are going to need a little upkeep. Sure, it’s different if a person is engaging sexually with an item that is a "one night stand" only. For example, a woman who uses a cucumber as a dildo or a man who engages in intercourse with a watermelon will, one hopes, dispose of the item in question after it has provided the desired satisfaction.

But for those who are using a manufactured cock ring, anal plug or other sex toy, then proper care is essential to ensure the best experience for all concerned. Among the tips to keep in mind are the following:

- Inspect the sex toys beforehand. Don’t plunk down that hard-earned cash without checking out the merchandise in advance. Some toys (especially some in the "jelly rubber" line) are made with phthalates, which are considered carcinogenic - so it’s good to give those products a wide berth. And if they are porous (which, again includes "jelly rubber" toys, as well as those made with polyvinyl chloride), they are more likely to hide bacteria and harder to sanitize. "Solid" materials, like silicone or steel, are not porous and can be cleaned more readily.

- Inspect them regularly throughout their life span. It’s also a good idea to keep checking out toys after they’ve been used. Some may develop rips or tears, which can become good hiding places for bacteria. If they develop an unpleasant odor, it’s a sign that something may be wrong.

- Sanitize them regularly. Lots of people cleanse their sex toys after they’ve been used, which is recommended; this gets any stray bacteria, fluids, etc. off right away. But even if toys are kept locked away in a closed plastic bag between rounds, they can still come in contact with bacteria. Therefore, sanitizing them shortly before they are used is also a good preventive measure to take. Many sex toys come with instructions for proper sanitizing. Usually, washing in warm, soapy water is recommended, after which they should be dried thoroughly. Some toys, such as those made of stainless steel, can be boiled, if desired. If the toy has parts that move, it’s good to open up the pieces and clean and dry them separately. Special care needs to be taken with toys that have batteries or electrical cords.

- Store them properly. As previously mentioned, once toys are completely dry, it may be beneficial to store them in plastic bags; however, do not store toys together (bagged or not) in a situation where they are touching and rubbing against each other. This can cause wear and tear, but it can also pass bacteria on from any toy that may not have been cleaned thoroughly.

A happy penis will be even happier if the sex toys with which a man is involved are properly cared for. The penis will also be happier if it is kept in good shape itself. Regular application of a superior penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) can help significantly. Since aggressive use of sex toys may cause some soreness, utilizing a crème with choice moisturizing elements, such as shea butter and vitamin E, is recommended. These will hydrate the penis and help alleviate contact-related soreness. Since bacteria is always a concern, using a crème with vitamin A will avail a man of its mighty anti-bacterial properties (and thereby help eliminate stubborn penis odor as well.)

Sex Toys Fun: Is a Male Chastity Device for You?

The use of sex toys can open up new vistas for many couples. For men, cock rings, imitation vaginas and anal plugs are among the more common items in this category, but the male chastity device also has many adherents. Used with proper attention to penis care, a male chastity device can provide men with an opportunity to expand their sexual horizons.

What is it?
Simply put, a male chastity device is a tool which prevents a man from being able to utilize his penis in a sexual manner. This includes both partner-based sex and masturbation.

Typically, the male chastity device is a "cage" which fits over either just the penis or over the penis and balls. The device may be made of metal, rubber, silicone, or another substance. It may be fairly solid, covering most of the penis and/or balls, or it may be more "skeletal" in nature and have some open gaps in it. There is a slit in the end of the device so that a man may urinate while wearing it.
When wearing the chastity device, the man (or another person) is unable to stroke and stimulate the penis, minimizing the possibility of erections. In addition, the device is designed with little "wiggle room," so that when a non-manually-stimulated erection occurs, it has less room to grow and so tends to soften rather quickly.

What is the appeal?
The device is typically designed to be locked, so that the male wearing it is unable to remove it. Men who enjoy wearing chastity devices are engaging in a form of orgasm control and/or orgasm denial.
In theory, a man wears a chastity device to which his partner has the key. The idea is to wear the device for extended periods of time, often several days. During this time, the man is not able to fondle himself or be fondled. When he does become aroused, he is unable to masturbate or engage in other forms of sex, so that he may experience frustration. Often, the partner comments upon this in a manner which demonstrates her/his dominant role in the relationship - he or she now effectively "owns" the man’s penis and is able to decide how long he must undergo sexual frustration before being allowed relief. Men who enjoy submissive play may find this tremendously exciting.

Not always so long
In practice, many couples use the chastity device for much shorter periods of time - usually just a few hours, role playing a dominant-submissive role but with an end in clear sight. This allows a man to indulge a wish for submission without losing total control. This can also be intensely erotic for some men.

There are some good reasons for limiting the amount of time one spends in a chastity device. If the device does not fit correctly, it can cause the penis to become raw and sore, and this can lead to some de-sensitization. A too-tight device can also cut off circulation or pinch the skin in a painful manner. Additionally, many doctors believe that using such a device for more than a few hours at a time has the potential to do long term-damage. However, many men who use one appropriately and for short periods of time find that their orgasms when released are exceptionally vibrant.

All sex toys should be used with care, and the male chastity device is no exception. If the penis experiences minor irritation from its use, regular application of an exceptional penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) can help provide relief. If penis sensation has diminished somewhat from use, a creme with acetyl L carnitine can help reverse the problem. This ingredient helps to soothe peripheral nerve damage, which is responsible for much of the loss of sensation resulting from a rough sex situation. Since blood flow is crucial for penis function, the crème must also contain L arginine, an amino acid that aids the relaxation of penis blood vessels so that there is ample room for blood to flow in and out as needed.

Homemade Sex Toys for DIY Penis Fun

Masturbation is enjoyable in and of itself, but sometimes a guy likes to add something different to his penis fun. Clearly, sex toys are one of the go-to options here, but there can be drawbacks. For example, a dude might not have one on hand when he wants one, or they may not fit into his tight budget. That’s where DIY sex toys come in - and as long as attention is paid to ensuring they don’t impact good penis health, the homemade possibility gives a man the opportunity to be creative in his solo-sexual play.

Safety First
 
Although it can be invigorating to delve into homemade sex toys, it’s essential to remember the first rule: do no harm. Care always needs to be taken to ensure that using any toy, whether homemade or store-bought, is going to be safe and not harm the equipment - or any other part of the body.

Out of your gourd
 
Many men who enjoy (or would like to enjoy) a faux vagina toy fall back on a substitute from Nature - the penis-friendly gourd. We’re talking pumpkin, watermelons, honeydew melons, cantaloupes, etc. These gourds are generally large enough to provide the average penis with a vagina-like playground.

To make sexual use of a gourd, carve a hole in it that is big enough around and deep enough to comfortably accommodate the penis - but not so large as to prevent an adequate build-up of friction when thrusting. Smoothing the edge of the rind is also a good idea. Once it has been properly prepared, simply insert the erect member and get down to business.

Some men prefer to lie on their backs and lift the gourd up and down; others favor lying atop the gourd and simulating a more "missionary" approach.

Gourds do tend to be juice and fleshy - and therefore rather messy. Be prepared both to clean up the "work area" and the penis itself. Also note: some penises have very sensitive skin and may react to the juiciness of the gourd flesh.

Plastic wrap
 
The world of plastic presents numerous DIY sex opportunities. For example, many men find that simply wrapping bubble wrap around their penis and masturbating brings about a deliriously intense orgasm.

Another popular option is to take a plastic bag and squirt one’s favorite lubricant in it. Let it spread out and cover the whole bag. Once properly lubed, place the penis inside it and thrust away.

Ring It
 
Penis rings are very popular in the world of sex toys for men. A man can utilize a DIY version if a professional one is not in reach; however, it’s important to make sure that whatever is used can be easily and quickly removed and that it is not so tight as to cause pain or damage.

Although some men use rubber bands, these can be too constrictive and can also be difficult to remove. A better bet is to use a piece of ribbon and tie it around the organ. This is softer on the skin, allows the user to determine the appropriate degree of tightness and is usually easy to remove.

As stated above, DIY sex toys add greatly to solo penis fun - as long as they’re used properly. Even when used properly, enthusiastic utilization may cause soreness, which requires the application of a top-drawer penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil). The best bet is to choose a crème which is loaded with a combination of natural moisturizers that can properly soothe and treat the skin, such as Shea butter (a high-end emollient) and vitamin E (a great natural hydrator). The wise man will make sure the crème also contains vitamin C. The reason? Vitamin C, an aid in collagen production, is an important structural component of blood vessels and is a contributor to firm skin. Keep the skin healthy to ensure greater enjoyment.

Cock Rings: Fun Sex Toys for Men

Many men are interested in experimenting with sex toys, but don’t know where to begin. Whenever considering trying a new toy, it’s important to understand the intended purpose, different options available and safety concerns associated with the product. For men interested in cock rings, the following information will help maximize pleasure while maintaining penis health.

What are they?
 
Cock rings fit either around the base of the penis or around the base of the penis as well as the top of the testicles. Some have adjustable straps, while others are solid and one-sized.

Purposes
 
Cock rings serve two main purposes: 1) restricting blood flow out of the penis, thereby helping men maintain erections; and 2) providing extra pressure that many men find pleasurable. Some cock rings are designed to serve both purposes.

Rings that fit around the penis and testicles are the most common type. These are less efficient at maintaining blood within the penis, but tend to provide extra pleasure. The rings that fit solely around the penis are designed more for maintaining erections, but men should be aware that they don’t guarantee a raging hard-on; rather, they generally keep the penis at least semi-stiff, enabling intercourse.

Variations
 
Some cock rings come with a vibrating component that can both provide stimulation to a woman’s clitoris during intercourse as well as additional stimulation to the man wearing the ring. There are also cock rings with extra straps designed to separate the testicles, a sensation some men enjoy.
As mentioned above, some rings are adjustable, while others are solid. Materials vary; some are made of soft silicone, for example, while others are made with tougher leather. Men just starting out may want to go with adjustable rings constructed of softer materials, for both comfort and ease of removal.

Safety
 
Cock rings are safe when used correctly, but there are a few important cautionary points to keep in mind.

First, rings should not be worn for more than 20 minutes. They restrict blood flow, and this can be damaging to tissues if continued for a long period of time. Men just starting out are well-advised to keep rings on for no more than 10 minutes at a time to acclimate to the sensation and the restriction of circulation.

Men using solid, non-adjustable rings should have medical scissors nearby in case emergency removal is needed. Generally, lubricant, cold water or ice can facilitate removal, but if these don’t work, it’s important to be able to cut the ring off.

Cock rings should not be used by people with blood clotting disorders, bleeding disorders, diabetes, peripheral nerve disease or vascular disease. They should also not be relied upon as a treatment for erectile dysfunction, a condition that may be caused by a variety of physical or psychological issues that should be addressed.

Men experimenting with new toys may find that their sex lives become much more exciting and enjoyable. On the other hand, they may notice that their penises are sorer and more chafed after sexual activity with sex toys such as cock rings.

Along with using lubricant while masturbating or having sex, men can alleviate the toll on their penis skin with the use of a quality penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil). Such a moisturizer, equipped with Shea butter and vitamin E, and made specifically for the penis, will protect the skin from the frictions of the day. Man1 Man Oil also contains acetyl L-carnitine, an amino acid that helps prevent peripheral nerve damage that may result from regular, rough use of the penis. Keeping the member skin healthy is just as important to a man’s sexual wellbeing as incorporating exciting new methods into his repertoire.