Erect Penis Display: Safe Situations for Exhibitionism

Starting at an early age, a guy tends to be pretty proud of his erect penis and the tricks that it can do. For some men, this pride may take the form of exhibitionism: displaying the penis (erect or flaccid) to another person or persons, often in public or semi-public situations. (Hopefully, men understand that an erect penis isn't enough for praise; maintaining good penis health can help make one's penis something worthy of being displayed.) Exhibitionism becomes a problem when a man prominently exposes his penis in a situation in which such an action is not desired – or, in many cases, is not legal. 

Many men practice their exhibitionism in a safe way, which means not encroaching upon the rights and feelings of other people. The following are a few of the situations in which phallic display can be considered safe.

- In the locker room. Being in the changing room, shower room or sauna at a gym naturally affords a man the opportunity to walk around without clothing, so the locker room can be a great place for an exhibitionist to let it all hang out. It's also not uncommon for friends in a locker room to focus attention on and comment about (usually in a mock-derogatory manner) each other's equipment, which can be a plus for many exhibitionists. However, it's important to remember that even in this setting, some exhibitionist practices (such as masturbating or displaying in a coercive manner) are not appropriate.

- At a nudist beach or resort. Clearly, clothing-optional beaches or nudist resorts are natural places for a man to exhibit his wares. However, a guy needs to realize that neither of these situations may be appropriate for a man with a raging hard-on. While some degree of erection is considered acceptable in these locations, in general it's expected that such a state will be of limited duration. Men who become hard and flaunt the fact or who masturbate are not generally welcome.

- In booths at adult book stores. Many adult book stores feature booths where patrons can view explicit videos. Not surprisingly, most men engage in self-gratification while in these booths. Sometimes, patrons have cut peepholes between the booths in order to watch their neighbors; some booths even come equipped with plastic walls that enable consenting patrons in separate booths to watch each other as they masturbate.

- By skinny-dipping. Swimming naked gives many people a wonderful sense of freedom and liberation. If one has a private swimming area or can find a safely secluded spot, skinny-dipping with a partner or group of friends can be a wonderful experience.

- Jack and Jill parties. Many cities have private organizations that hold meetings specifically for their members to masturbate. When open to both sexes, it is generally referred to as a Jack and Jill club. Most such clubs have rules for cleanliness and hygiene, as well as about what is and is not allowed in terms of behavior.

- Role playing. Couples who are into exhibitionism can explore role playing as an option. This is especially useful for men with a desire to be exposed in a risky public situation. The couple creates a scenario that would be illegal in public and acts it out in the privacy of their own home. The power of imagination and fantasy cannot be underestimated.

Some exhibitionism of an erect penis is normal for a man, with many guys fulfilling this desire through simple one-on-one sexual contact. Whether putting the package on display for one partner or for a group, however, it pays to regularly use a top-drawer penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) to help maintain the organ in its best shape. A penis with adequately hydrated skin is going to have a nice glow and, more importantly, will lack dry, flaky patches that mar its otherwise impressive appearance. A crème that contains the high-end emollient Shea butter can be a superb way of providing moisturization to any member. Many penises often also feature broken capillaries as a result of rough handling. A crème that contains L-arginine should be used to help with this issue and restore the tool to its eye-catching appearance.

Masturbation Tips for the Adventurous -- Exhibitionist Roleplaying

Many men have an exhibitionist streak and would get a thrill out of displaying their penises for all the world to see. For proof, one has merely to take a stroll through any amateur porn sites to see how many men have been proud to post photos or videos of their erect penises. For that matter, flaccid penises are also readily available for viewing with only a click of the mouse. (And even a quick perusal reveals one thing worth noting: Most men could benefit from paying a bit more attention to their penis health, a wise move if one is planning to spread close-ups of his junk across the internet.) Virtual exposure (in which the face is not featured) is one of those masturbation tips that help exhibitionists stay out of trouble.

However, exhibitionists do not need to stop at virtual exposures of their tumescent members. There are other opportunities available for showing off one's manhood in a live setting - and doing so legally and safely. For example, many jack-off (for men) or jack-and-jill (for men and women) clubs exist where one may expose and stroke oneself as much as one pleases.

Roleplaying
Yet there are some who may desire more - and yet realize that unwanted and unasked-for displays of public nudity are risky at best, illegal at worst and often make victims of unwilling spectators. This is why exhibitionist roleplaying, in which one or more individuals exhibits him/herself and one or more play specifically identified viewers, is a suitable alternative to consider.

With roleplaying, all those participating are willing and informed. The boundaries can be established and any necessary rules set up, allowing for safety for all involved.

A couple’s game
Engaging in exhibitionist roleplaying is most often something that a couple enjoys, and the following examples will assume that only two are involved; however, for those with friends or acquaintances who share this interest, it can certainly be broadened to include many more than two participants.
And, though these examples stress masturbation, they can also lead to partner sex as well. The key here, of course, is that these are imaginary scenarios acted out in the privacy of one's own home.
With that said, here are some scenarios that careful exhibitionists may want to employ:

- Look what I can do! Some men have a desire to expose themselves because they felt their penis was shamed by their family when they were growing up. This scenario addresses that. The man gets into the bathtub and pretends to be a child. As he washes, he plays with himself openly. The spectator encourages him and praises his tool.

- Taxi jacked. The partners set up chairs to simulate a taxi, which the woman is driving. The man plays the passenger, who gets into the back seat. As the driver keeps up a steady stream of chatter, the passenger masturbates in the back seat, unnoticed by the driver until the passenger noisily orgasms.

- Table manners. The couple sits down to dinner. As they eat, the man unzips his pants and removes his tool, which he proceeds to fondle. Only as the man approaches orgasm does his partner become aware of his activities and demands that he stand up so that the partner can see him better.

- Half-time. While watching the big game on TV, the partner encourages the man to put on his own half-time show - complete with very special fireworks at the end.

- Police procedural. The couple pretends they are outside. The man pulls out his pecker and surreptitiously begins to pound it. His partner approaches, pretending to be a cop. She threatens to run him in, but is mesmerized by his member and instead threatens to arrest him if he doesn't continue on until he releases.

Naturally, this exhibitionist roleplaying may turn an erect penis into a sore one due to excessive or aggressive use. In these cases, a nourishing penis health cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) is needed. The best cream will include not only natural moisturizers (Shea butter and vitamin E are advised) but also L-arginine, which can address peripheral nerve damage from overuse that can otherwise lead to a loss of sensation in the tool. As an added bonus, creams with vitamin A have anti-bacterial properties to fight unwanted penis odor.