Sex Tips for Standing Up Positions

The possible positions for coupling are almost endless, and each of them comes with its own sex tips to consider for coital success. Although sex while standing up can be one of the more challenging positions, it also has an undeniable appeal. Doing it safely and correctly may take some practice - and maintaining appropriate penis health in advance doesn’t hurt, either. The sex tips that follow impart practical advice for those considering making love while standing up - opening up a whole range of new sensations.

Don’t start in the shower.
In this article, standing up sex is referring to penetrative sex; those who are engaging in manual genital stimulation may indeed find pleasure in doing this in the bathtub. But for those who plan to get "insertional," it’s wise to forget the many images of steamy shower sex scenes until after they have a few successful "dry land" tries under their belts. The reason, of course, is that the slipperiness factor in the shower can make it very easy to fall, which may lead to some very unfortunate injuries.

Start halfway.
Some couples find it easier to start with only the man standing, while the woman lies on the edge of a bed or other (perhaps higher) surface. In some instances, a couple may try with the man lying down - but this usually requires a very narrow surface for him to lie back on, so that the woman can stand with her feet on the floor while she straddles him.

Back into it.
For many couples, beginning with a male-front-to-female-back standing up position can be the best option. It can often be easier to maneuver the key body parts into a more accessible position this way. In addition, the male’s hands are freer to roam around the female’s breasts for extra erotic stimulation. The female also has more room for bending and finding more enjoyable placement of the body.

Leaning is good.
Balance is absolutely key to successful standing up sex. It’s not cheating to lean against a wall or to lean over onto chairs, tables or other objects in the area. Anything that helps to maintain balance is fair game.

Lifting legs is also okay.
There’s nothing that says all four legs have to be on the ground at all times. Women, especially, are in a good position to wrap one foot around a lover’s ankle or slide a leg up and down a mate’s leg. For men with exceptionally good balance and strength, it can be thrilling to lift the partner up and encourage her to wrap both legs around the man’s waist - but again, good balance and strength is key for this.

Toes may come into play.
Depending on the heights involved, the male may find himself having to lift up on his toes to thrust more accurately. Working on building up toe strength in advance is helpful.

Work the thighs.
Most men find that standing up sex provides a significant workout for their thighs - so again, taking time to strengthen them can allow a man to perform more impressively in this new position.

A caveat…
There’s a very old (and very false) rumor that a girl cannot get pregnant if she has sex standing up. This is in no way true - so if pregnancy is a concern, proper protection must be used at all times. Furthermore, any new sexual exploration requires that the equipment be kept in fine working order. To that end, daily application of a top flight penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) should be included in every man’s daily health regimen. When selecting an appropriate crème, check the label for L- arginine and vitamin C. L-arginine is an enzyme which plays a key role in the development of nitric oxide, which in turn helps relax penis blood vessels so that the all-important flow of blood is not impeded. Vitamin Cis necessary because it is an important structural component of blood vessels. This vitamin also is instrumental in collagen production and penile tissue function - vital attributes for a healthy penis.

Penis Health Tips: 4 Reasons Men Should Be Using Shea Butter Daily

Shea butter is a commonly used ingredient in skin and beauty products, but it can be especially beneficial for penis health. This sensitive area is prone to itchiness, dryness, and other inconvenient and uncomfortable sensations. Shea butter is a wonderful ingredient to apply to help moisturize the area and reduce inflammation, dryness and discomfort.

If you’re looking for an all-star ingredient to add to your personal care routine, Shea butter could be the one - especially if you suffer from some of the problems associated with dry skin. Here’s what you need to know about Shea butter and why it’s great for penis health.

Contains Vitamins A and E
Shea butter is rich in vitamins A and E, which have been shown to improve skin health on numerous levels. According to the Shea Institute, these nutrients have been associated with relief from conditions such as eczema, dermatitis, acne, skin allergies, sunburn and frostbite. In short, if you have some kind of skin irritation or discomfort, it’s likely that vitamins A and E will go a long way to soothe and protect the skin.

Rich in Moisture
The ingredients that make up Shea butter are derived from the Shea tree. Interestingly, Shea butter’s moisturizing agents are chemically similar to those produced by the sebaceous glands of the skin, which makes Shea a very natural ingredient to use on human skin. This is great for use in the penis region, as the area can be sensitive. On this area, it’s best to use ingredients like Shea butter that are similar in form and function to the skin’s natural properties.

"Shea Butter’s unparalleled moisturizing property is due to several natural moisturizers present in the cream," says a representative of the Shea Institute. "The moisturizers in Shea Butter are the same moisturizers produced by the sebaceous glands in the skin. If you buy the concept that the skin sebaceous glands produce moisturizers for the skin, then it’s no wonder that Shea Butter is such a superior moisturizer."

Extremely Protective
Have you ever smeared Shea butter on your skin before? If you have, you’ll know that it’s incredibly rich and thick-feeling, creating a generous protective barrier on the skin. This is another great reason to use Shea butter near the genital area.

Thick moisturizers like Shea protect the skin by forming a barrier between the epidermis (the outer layer of the skin) and the surrounding air. When this barrier is put in place, moisture from the skin can’t evaporate into the surrounding air, and air (which can be dry) can’t penetrate the skin’s layers. This creates a sealant of sorts that keeps moisture in and cold, dry air out.

You can see why this is great for men’s health. You may want to apply a layer of a Shea butter-containing moisturizer on a daily basis. It’d be especially beneficial to apply it before swimming in a chlorinated swimming pool or exposing yourself to the elements in a similar way.

Calms Inflammation and Redness
Finally, Shea butter is extremely soothing. If you have any kind of rash, redness, irritation or skin discomfort, Shea may be the answer you’ve been looking for. A 2010 study published in the US National Library of Medicine found that Shea butter’s components - particularly a compound called lupeol cinnamate - reduced inflammation and even prevented skin mutations.

If you have a rash or redness (and you’ve already seen your doctor to ensure that it isn’t a complication of something more serious, such as an STI), you may want to consider using Shea butter to calm the redness and irritation associated with inflammation. Applying a penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) not only brings with it the health benefits of Shea butter, but also those from a whole host of other beneficial skin moisturizers and protective ingredients.

Penis Odor and Summer – They Unfortunately Go Together

Summer is a time for getting outdoors, swimming, sunning, getting physical - and coming down with a bad case of penis odor. Yes, it’s true that penis odor can be a concern for men at any time of the year, but for many, the summer months can take the situation to a whole new level. Now, as the days get longer and hotter (and a man gets sweatier and sweatier), is the time for all dudes to up their penis care game and make a serious commitment to de-stenching the junk.

Sweat happens.

Let’s face it, a guy’s drawers are a breeding place for penis odor. One of the primary reasons for this is bacteria, which naturally accumulates in places that are moist and warm; and that describes a man’s favorite body part to a T.

The "sperm factory" in the testicles is already a source of some heat. When the bushy pubic hair that many men exhibit is added in, the warmth factor goes up. Combined with not just one but two layers of clothing (in general) and the heat index skyrockets, creating copious amounts of sweat, and therefore bacteria - and therefore penis odor.

More than bacteria.

But while bacteria are a major player (and not the kind of player most guys want to be) in the odor department, it’s not necessarily the only factor causing a pungent penis. Sometimes there can be other issues at play. For example:

- Fungus. A fungal infection brings its own distinct aroma to the party - and it’s not one that most men (or their partners) find pleasant. Like bacteria, fungi thrive in moist, warm environments - so setting up shop in the crotch is second nature to them.

- Urinary tract infection. A urinary tract infection causes a man’s urine to develop a palpable stink. Though most men do their best to keep stray drops of urine from lingering in the area, they rarely get it all wiped away. The dried urine in an infected state can make its presence felt easily.

- Diabetes. People with diabetes sometimes have ketone bodies, which result from the improper breakdown of fatty acids. These chemical compounds have a distinctive, unpleasant smell which provide another source for unseemly penis odors.

What to do

The first step in preventing or decreasing an overly-aromatic member is to practice good hygiene. Showering - or washing the penile area at least - once a day or more is recommended during the summer, especially for men who engage in frequent athletic activities. For those whose athletics extend to the bedroom, washing the entire genital area after sex is a requirement; the mixture of smells from vaginal intercourse and penile ejaculate can cling to the penis and intensify the rank odor. It’s also important to thoroughly dry the area to avoid encouraging fungal or bacterial regrowth.
Airing out is also very helpful. Men who are able to should consider sleeping naked, especially during the summer months, in order to help the crotch to benefit from a thorough airing.

Treat any secondary causes of penis odor, such as diabetes or a fungal infection. It may be necessary to see a doctor for proper treatment of such factors.

Eliminate outside factors that can contribute to odor. For example, smoking produces a nicotine-like smell in sweat. Spicy foods or foods with a strong odor (such as asparagus) may likewise impact the odor emanating from the member.

Penis odor may not fully respond just to such steps, especially during the summer months. That’s why regularly using a first rate penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) year round is needed. It’s essential that any crème chosen contains vitamin A, which is blessed with anti-bacterial properties that can help actively fight penis odor. It also helps if the crème contains alpha lipoic acid, which hydrosoluble and can offset oxidative stress to the penis cells while helping to ward off dryness or scaliness that can result from overwashing the penis.

Penis Rash May Come from Clothing

When a penis rash develops, a man may become a little panicky. There are many things that can cause a penis rash, some of which are a bit scary, but one of the most common culprits is - believe it or not - the wrong clothing choice. That’s right; a guy’s wardrobe can be a significant contributing factor to that itchy redness on the manhood. For that reason, guys need to expand the parameters of their penis care to include issues related to clothing choice and upkeep.

Textile contact dermatitis
 
Rashes that develop as a result of clothing are often classified as "textile contact dermatitis." When a penis rash develops due in whole or in part to clothing options, it generally is due to one or more of these factors:

- The texture of the fabric.
- Non-fabric components such as buttons, zippers, etc.
- Chemicals used in the creation of the clothing.
- Chemicals used in the cleaning of the clothing.
- Heat generated by the wearing of the clothing.

Texture
 
The first thing to be aware of is how sensitive penis skin really is. It tends to be very thin, so that the nerve endings that cause pleasurable sensations are more readily available for stimulation. Because of this, it is also more readily prone to irritation and allergic reactions than many other parts of the body.
When that thin penis skin comes into contact with fabrics that are rough, it can create a degree of friction that is unpleasant. This is especially true when a man goes commando and wears trousers but no underwear. Underwear, being typically made of a soft, gentle cotton-based fabric, helps to form a barrier against direct contact with rough fabric. However, the penis (especially when erect) can slip through openings in the underwear and rub up against the trousers directly. In some cases, trouser fabric can be so rough that even a layer of underwear does not provide adequate protection from irritation.

Buttons, zippers, etc.
 
This is again more often a problem when a man dispenses with underwear. When the penis rubs against metal, especially rough zippers, there is potential for irritation.

Chemicals
 
Often, manufacturers will use chemicals of various kinds when creating clothing. This can come about due to coloring, providing a specific texture or other reasons. Furthermore, many laundry detergents contain harsh chemicals that are anathema to delicate penis skin. Chemical reactions often occur even when there is a layer of protection afforded by underwear. There is little a person can do to avoid chemicals used in the creation of clothing; however, a man is advised to choose detergents that are as free of excess chemicals and fragrances as possible. In addition, it is important to wash all new clothes - both pants and undergarments - before wearing them in order to remove any residual chemicals left from the manufacturing process.

Heat
 
During summer, especially, heat causes sweating which in turns leads to a bacterial accumulation and a subsequent development of a penis rash. In addition, when sweat evaporates, it can take with it some of the body oils that keep the skin moist, creating dry skin that is more prone to rashes. Wearing light clothing and changing clothes frequently can help with this issue. It is also helpful to "air out" the penis by spending time naked when possible.

Even taking the steps suggested above may not be enough to ward off penis rash from clothing, especially during the hot summer days. For this reason, a daily application of a first class penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) is crucial. A crème with a combination of hydrators, such as shea butter (a high end emollient) and vitamin E, is a big help in keeping the skin moist in a healthy manner. These hydrators also are soothing to a penis rash and can reduce the itchiness that often accompanies rashing. Because of the role bacteria plays in rashes, using a crème with vitamin A is also essential. This vitamin has strong anti-bacterial properties that attack bad bacteria, helping to alleviate the rash while at the same time attacking common penis odors.

The Healthy Penis and Naked Dining: Invaluable Hygiene Tips

Nudism - or naturism, as many call it - is a growing trend, which means that men who enjoy public baring of the body (in the right place at the right time, of course) need to be more aware than ever of the need to maintain a healthy penis. Practicing acceptable penis care can help to ensure that a guy makes a favorable impression when socially nude, whether it’s just with one special person or a group of like-minded folks. The desire to make a good impression may be especially true when naked dining is on the menu - and the following tips can help the novice nude nosher know what to do to present himself at his best.

Duet dining is different than dining with a group. Although some rules apply in any situation, keep in mind that some rules that are definite for dining publicly may be bent or omitted altogether when experiencing a cozy dinner for two. When in doubt, however, err on the side of etiquette.

In public, try to keep things down. Erections happen and are a part of the naturist lifestyle; however, there’s a different between a man who has simply become firm and a man who is sporting a raging erection that is begging for release. The latter may be welcome at a private dinner in one’s own home, but it is frowned upon at a nudist eating establishment. If this occurs at the wrong time, visualizing a less-than-tantalizing situation may be the "downer" that is needed to get things under control.

Use towels and napkins. Hygiene and health are important, so sitting on a towel is a must. By the same token, placing a napkin on the lap ensures that no messy crumbs or sticky sauces spill upon one’s member.

Watch the hot stuff. No, that isn’t a reference to the manhood - it’s a reference to things that can spill on the manhood. Even with a napkin, very hot soup, for example, can turn an otherwise healthy penis into an unhappy - or even permanently scarred - remembrance of the experience.

Be careful about reaching. Miss Manners tells people that reaching is rude; when dining in the buff, it can also be unsanitary. Men tend to sweat, and reaching across a table while shirtless means that perspiration from the exposed underarm can more readily plop upon the table, the plates, the food - or even a dining companion. Men should ask to have far-off dishes passed to them, instead.

Be part of the feast - when alone. If dining nude in the privacy of one’s home, let the experience become an erotic escapade. Plan meals in which foods can be applied to the penis, the breasts, and other body parts and consumed by the partner. In general, this means using foods that have a "spreadable" consistency, such as dips or soft, fleshy fruits. It’s also important that the food is neither too hot not too cold. Spiciness should also be avoided, as that can have a negative effect on sensitive skin. And, of course, any foods to which one or both partners are allergic should be off the list altogether.

Clean your plate. When dining privately and snacking on foods that cover a partner’s body part, be sure to eat it all - or else to wipe it off when done. Dried food on the penis or vagina is unpleasant and uncomfortable. And clean the penis after eating and before engaging in intercourse, as leftover food may irritate the vagina.

Naked dining can be a liberating and enjoyable experience - and will be even more so if a man has a healthy penis that he can present without shame. Regularly using a first rate penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) can be an important part of a personal care regimen. When a man uses a crème with vitamin C, he’s doing his penis a big favor. Vitamin C encourages collagen production, which in turn is one of the building blocks of penis tissue firmness. Be sure that the chosen crème also includes vitamin B5, which helps to maintain healthy penis skin as well as enhance penis cell metabolism. Use of Man1 Man Oil puts a man’s penis on the road to looking impressively healthy.

Sex Tips for Getting Frisky in the Car

One of the most frequently-cited sex tips recommends that couples spice up their sex lives by taking it outside the bedroom. Car sex can be a stimulating change of pace, whether it’s planned or spontaneous. And, of course, many men find the automobile a nice fit for some autoerotic experiences, as well. As long as one pays attention, exercises proper caution and maintains adequate attention to penis care , then car-based sex can be a lot of fun.

These sex tips can make the experience even more enjoyable for those vehicularly-inclined.

- Bring a blanket. Car sex is often a very sweaty affair, especially when performed against leather or vinyl seats. The end result can be a serious mess. A man can help keep the car cleaner and himself and his partner less sticky by bringing a blanket, towel or sheet to lay across the seats in use.

- Practice flexibility. Because a car is not built for lying down, most couples find themselves putting their bodies into unusual positions, even when just using traditional sex positions like missionary. For this reason, it’s good to limber up a little in advance and get one’s body as flexible as possible. It will pay off in the heat of the moment when that right foot suddenly finds itself at an angle you never thought possible.

- Consider lap dancing. In many cars, the best option is going to be a seated position - especially where bucket seats are concerned. The man should push the seat as far back as possible and sit while the partner straddles his erect penis. It’s best if the seat can be folded down, so that the man can be as far back as possible. This will give his partner more room to maneuver.

- Get tinted. Hopefully, most people who practice car sex will do so in a secluded spot where they are unlikely to be viewed by others. And it’s true that the heat that couples generate does tend to fog up the windows. Still, it’s wise to invest in tint for the windows to add an extra layer of privacy to the proceedings.

- Go for a quickie. Having sex in a car adds a little extra zest and thrill to one’s coupling; however, because it is often cramped, it’s usually best to agree to make the experience a quickie rather than trying to set a longevity record.

- Try a flatbed. For those who really want to extend the experience instead of making it a quick one, it may be best to consider renting a pick-up. The flatbed in the back of a truck is an excellent spot for coupling. There’s more room, it’s flatter and more like a bed, and during nice weather, a gentle breeze on the skin can be intensely erotic.

- Open the doors. If one is truly in a secluded spot and not in danger of getting busted for indecent exposure, opening the doors can make the car sex experience more pleasurable. It gives more room and lets in air. It also gives people the chance to try a few different positions, such as the woman lying on the seat while the man stands outside the car.

These basic sex tips can come in handy when feeling frisky in a car. For maximum enjoyment, of course, it pays to keep the penis in its prime health, and regular application of a superior penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) is one excellent way to achieve that goal. Men should be sure that the crème selected include L-arginine, an important enzyme which helps to keep penile blood vessels open and flowing, better oxygenating the blood in the penis and helping to prevent broken capillaries. Another essential ingredient: vitamin B5, which helps to maintain good penis cell metabolism as well as maintain the health of penis cells in general.

Can a Bent Penis Cause Depression?

Many men notice a small degree of curvature in their members, but a significantly bent penis is less common - and it can be unsettling, in some cases causing low self-esteem, performance anxiety, and even depression in men who are prone. Taking appropriate penis care steps can be helpful in preventing this often painful condition, but a man with a truly bent penis may need to consider other options as well.

Peyronie’s Disease
 
A severely bent penis is a medical condition known as Peyronie’s disease. Men who are suffering from this disease may have a member that appears perfectly normal when flaccid; however, when it becomes erect, it develops a curvature that can be extreme - in some instances as much as 90 degrees! The curvature may be to the left or to the right, or it may point upwards or bend down. Peyronie’s disease is the result of scarring on the erectile tissue that prevents one part of the erectile chamber from expanding normally during an erection - think of a bow bending when an archer pulls the string back to fire an arrow. This is often the result of an injury to the area - such as blunt force trauma to the area or even a rupture of the erectile tissue (usually caused by hard impact with a partner’s body or sudden bending/twisting).

As stated before, minor curvature is not at all unusual and is not considered a problem. As a matter of fact, some men (and their partners) prefer to have a bit of a bend. They may like the way it looks, and some women find that it stimulates them in a way that a perfectly straight penis does not. But with Peyronie’s, the bend may be so extreme that penetration becomes difficult and/or painful; up to 24% of men with Peyronie’s report a cessation in their sexual activity. And in some cases, the mere erection of the penis can result in pain. The flexibility of the organ may also be affected, and many men report a diminished sensitivity to their erections, as well.

The incidence of Peyronie’s disease is debated in the medical community. Some sources estimate that it affects between 1% and 3% of men; others think the incidence may be as high as 8% of men. It can occur at any age, but is somewhat more common in men age 40 or older.

Depression
 
Although the physical side effects of Peyronie’s are easily seen, there can be less obvious consequences; which may even include depression; 0ne study found that 60% of men with Peyronie’s experienced depression due to their condition.

This is understandable: A man’s physical appearance has an impact on his mental health, and for many men, the penis and its appearance is an especially important component of the way they view themselves. When the penis takes on such a significantly altered appearance, it can change the way a man feels about himself. And when there are other factors added in, such as difficulty penetrating or a reduced sensation in the penis, this can also increase feelings of depression.

What to do
 
A man who feels depressed due to his bent penis needs to take steps to address this issue. It’s strongly advised that a man see a mental health professional to discuss how this condition is affecting him and to develop strategies for coping with the situation.

Some strategies that the doctor may suggest could include redefining the importance of the penis in one’s self-image; practicing affirmations that focus on the positive aspects of the penis; and partner-based reaffirmation of the man’s desirability. In some cases, anti-depressants may be recommended.

Beyond treating depression, men may want to try to treat the bent penis itself. Some treatments can lessen the curvature, especially when the cause is related to a build-up of scar tissue due to rough handling. Surgery may also be an option.

It also helps to maintain the overall health of the member by the regular use of a first class penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil). Since de-sensitization often accompanies Peyronie’s, a crème with a neuroprotective ingredient such as acetyl L carnitine is highly recommended. This can help amend peripheral nerve damage that may accompany scar tissue build-up. To help restore suppleness to the skin, moisturizing capability is crucial; a crème with both a natural hydrator (such as vitamin E) and a world class emollient (shea butter is excellent) is needed. Using a superior crème can keep the penis healthy and aid a man in feeling good about his penis again.