Ladies, Up Your Oral Sex Game

Ladies, it’s no secret that men can get especially excited at the prospect of a little oral sex. That’s not because they don’t greatly like, crave and desire regular vaginal intercourse by any means; it’s simply that oral sex is like the occasional special treat dessert. No guy would want to experience only oral sex with the ladies he loves, but when the occasion for some oral entertainment arises, he’s especially gung ho. Assuming he takes care of his penis health, oral sex should present no serious issues for those giving this gift to their men. But they may want to keep in mind ways to make their oral sex even better for their partner.

The basics

Clearly, oral sex is easy to define - it’s any time one partner’s mouth performs sexual maneuvers on another person’s genitals. Where male-oriented oral sex is concerned, this is most often presented in porn culture as involving men standing while ladies kneel in front of them to be of service.

Now there’s nothing wrong with that at all, and no man will complain if every one of his oral sex experiences is performed in that manner. But the fact remains that there are variations on positions for oral sex, and ladies (and their gentlemen) may want to explore these options as well.

- Seated. Kneeling is all very well and good - for a minute or two. But women may find it more comfortable to perform orally if they are seated rather than kneeling. The angle of engulfment may vary slightly from kneeling, but more importantly, if a woman is comfortable, she’ll be more likely to concentrate on the task at hand - and that will make the sex more enjoyable. Alternatively, the male can try sitting down instead. And again, the woman can either kneel as before or take a seat next to her partner. In the latter case, there may be some strain bending from the waist in this manner, so it may pay for the male to sit on some cushions or pillows to raise his waist (and penis) up to a more comfortable position for the woman.

- Lying down. The man lies on his back (preferably on a bed or other soft surface); the woman kneels or lies face down on the bed as well. Depending on the size and shape of the bed, she may lie with her head between his legs or on either side (forming a kind of "T" shape with their bodies.) This is often the most comfortable position for both parties - and comfort is often a big factor in how enjoyable oral sex can be for both participants.

In another variation, the woman lies on her back and the man kneels with his penis near her head. He raises her head so that the woman’s mouth can fellate the penis. Men in this position should resists the temptation to forcefully thrust, unless this has been discussed in advance with their partners.

- Mutual pleasuring. Of course, oral sex can be mutually pleasurable, especially if partners enjoy a "69" position - with one lying face up on the bed, the other on top face down, with the crotch of one by the mouth of the other and vice versa. For those for whom the on top/on bottom situation doesn’t work, they can lie on their sides instead.

As with all things sexual, communication and respect will enhance the oral sex experience no matter what position is employed.

Ladies, oral sex will be more comfortable if a man’s penis health is prime, so encourage partners to daily use a top drawer penis health oil (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin). Smooth penis skin is desirable, so find an oil that contains both a high end emollient (such as shea butter) and a natural hydrator (like vitamin E). In addition, select an oil with vitamin A, the anti-bacterial properties of which can help diminish unwanted penis odor.

Ladies, Do You Know Your Penis Facts?

Ladies, hopefully the man or me n in your life is everything you want him to be – considerate, kind, attentive, intelligent, sexy, and good in bed. But even the near-perfect mate (because let’s face it, nobody’s really perfect) may have some aspects which are a bit of a mystery to you. For example, no matter how willing (and indeed eager) a man may be to share his penis with you, there are things about his penis which you may still not quite understand or know about. With that in mind, the following penis facts are presented, to help ladies know about their man’s little (or not so little) best friend.

Basic penis facts

- Average size has been exaggerated. For many years, the average erect penis size was said to be six inches. However, a recent study (one of the few such studies which was well designed and therefore is more likely to be closer to accurate) found that the average erect penis is actually just shy of 5.2 inches. The vast majority of men have a tool that measures between 4 and 6 inches.

- He starts (and started) early. Most men wake up with morning wood, which is to say that when they arise to greet the day, their penis has already risen. That’s because the parasympathetic nervous system is responsible for erections, and it is much more active during the night. In addition, testosterone levels impact erections, and testosterone goes up o while a man sleeps. Interestingly enough, those erections precede his entry into the world; science has shown that male babies get erections while still in the womb. (To some ladies, that will come as no surprise whatsoever.)

- It can’t be technically broken. Despite guys calling an erection a boner, there actually are no bones in the penis –and so technically a guy cannot “break” his penis. But that doesn’t mean it can’t be injured. While erect, the penis can undergo a boneless fracture, which is often accompanied by a popping sound, if it slams against something or is slammed into something. This causes penile tissue known as the tunica albuginea to tear.

- It’s not just one tube. Although the penis looks like one tube (or, to some, a hose), it is actually made up on the interior of three tubes. Two of them are called the corpus cavernosum and one in between these two is called corpus spongiosum.

- Many are insecure about their friend. Even many men who are perfectly well endowed and who are quite good in bed may still feel insecure about the size, shape, looks, functionality, or general appeal of their penis. A little praise from the ladies can be helpful for these men; even some guys who are full of macho swagger may deep down be using that to mask worries they have about their manhood.

- Obese men may see their penis “shrink.” When a man gains weight, at a certain point the “pad” that surrounds his penis can become fat as well – and that fat may “swallow up” the base of his penis, making his penis (or that which is still visible) shorter. Women with chubby lovers whose health would be improved if they lost weight might use the fact that a thinner man means a longer penis to inspire them.

Ladies, one more of our penis facts deserves note: men need to work on penis health just as they do other health issues. One thing they can do is apply a first class penis health oil (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) regularly. The best oils will contain both L-arginine and L-carnitine. The former is an amino acid which helps increase blood flow to the penis when required. The latter has neuroprotective qualities which can aid in maintaining proper penis sensitivity through the years.